Brickwell wrote
Sounds like the beginning of a witch hunt or j'accuse. Yuck.

Not that I disagree with the base thoughts, the playing sucks donkey ass. But even you say it: YOU led on like what you rant on. Why are you focusing so much on the MEN when you yourself a lady have done it?

Neko Kiera wrote


That's why I put that in there, bub. I'm aware that ladies do the same things a lot, but I guess I'm seeing it from my perspective as a female who primarily dates males...lol. But it applies to everyone.

JustinNasty wrote
Oh god, I should go hide in a hole now yes? lol

krismiss wrote
Can I add something?
If you have a real-life girlfriend, please please please please please don't lie to me. It doesn't mean I'm no going to want to talk to you! I'm fine with friends, but don't lead me on and lie about not having a girlfriend. I WILL FIND OUT.

Just like Neko said about when you chat up a LOT of girls at once, WE WILL FIND OUT.... I have eyes everywhere, boys.

Brickwell wrote


Perhaps. But it still smells fishy to invite people, in general, to try to pop out their moral failings and probably cause someone pissed off at being led on or tricked to point someone else out and start letting shit fly in public, which is the last thing this place needs.

This topic still smacks of the aformentioned witch hunting.

Neko Kiera wrote
I'm sure a lot of you ladies know what I'm talking about here. A dude will be chatting you up and you're starting to think he's really into you...until you find out he's spitting his game to a bunch of other girls at the same time (and guys, we're not dumb. We DO find out!).

Of course this happens everywhere, but I've seen it a lot with some people I talk to/have talked to from sites like this (and of course some ladies are guilty of this too. I know I have done it in the past too!).

Guys; if you're simply casting your net to 20 different girls, making them think you're interested in them for more than just shenanigans when you're not...quit being a tool!!! I know there's the catch-22 some guys have where they don't want to mess with a "skank", yet don't want a relationship. In that case, you're simply going to end up breaking good girls' hearts and screwing your own karma in the process. There are plenty of girls who would be totally into an open relationship, just sexual, or whatever. Just be completely honest about what you're looking for, and you'll eventually find someone who wants the same thing.

And if you think this kinda thing has no affect on your reputation, consider the fact that this community is pretty dang small. Girls talk...a lot! If you pull a bunch of bang-and-jet operations, we're likely to find out, and you'll eventually be labeled a skeeze. So do us and yourselves a favor, and be straightforward! Embrace your inner ho! haha

Neko Kiera wrote
I'm sure a lot of you ladies know what I'm talking about here. A dude will be chatting you up and you're starting to think he's really into you...until you find out he's spitting his game to a bunch of other girls at the same time (and guys, we're not dumb. We DO find out!).

Of course this happens everywhere, but I've seen it a lot with some people I talk to/have talked to from sites like this (and of course some ladies are guilty of this too. I know I have done it in the past too!).

Guys; if you're simply casting your net to 20 different girls, making them think you're interested in them for more than just shenanigans when you're not...quit being a tool!!! I know there's the catch-22 some guys have where they don't want to mess with a "skank", yet don't want a relationship. In that case, you're simply going to end up breaking good girls' hearts and screwing your own karma in the process. There are plenty of girls who would be totally into an open relationship, just sexual, or whatever. Just be completely honest about what you're looking for, and you'll eventually find someone who wants the same thing.

And if you think this kinda thing has no affect on your reputation, consider the fact that this community is pretty dang small. Girls talk...a lot! If you pull a bunch of bang-and-jet operations, we're likely to find out, and you'll eventually be labeled a skeeze. So do us and yourselves a favor, and be straightforward! Embrace your inner ho! haha

Neko Kiera wrote


Exactlyyyy. The dude in question didn't get past my skank-dar - he was a pretty obvious doucher. But he was macking on me and 2 girls I talk to enough to know what's going on, AND had a girlfriend! I might have been a little blazed when I wrote the original post, lol! So I apologize if it was harsh... I used to be a hardcore playa, and it took me falling hard for someone and being cheated on (a bunch) to realize how much I'd hurt others in the past. So I don't mean to be judgmental, just saying...treat others the way you want to be treated.

Neko Kiera wrote


Exactlyyyy. The dude in question didn't get past my skank-dar - he was a pretty obvious doucher. But he was macking on me and 2 girls I talk to enough to know what's going on, AND had a girlfriend! I might have been a little blazed when I wrote the original post, lol! So I apologize if it was harsh... I used to be a hardcore playa, and it took me falling hard for someone and being cheated on (a bunch) to realize how much I'd hurt others in the past. So I don't mean to be judgmental, just saying...treat others the way you want to be treated.