Actually I suspect most feedees/gainers are men; for most sexual kinks there are more men that women who have it as a specific turn-on from what I've heard (there will be woman who are specifically turned on by it, and more who may enjoy it to some degree, but the number who are really into it will usually be more men than women). I think women might be more apt to post about it at places like this, because they probably get more positive attention for it.
Which leads into part 2 of what you talked about: finding a female feeder, especially a dominant one. You can ask around the guys here who have been looking for one, they'd know best. My impression, however, is that there are also more male feedees than there are female feeders.
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