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gaining with other guys: non gay?3 years

For me, gaining is a huge turn on and to share that with someone that I'm not at all attracted to would make me uncomfortable. I've been asked by plenty of guys on here if I want a "gaining buddy" or something like that, so it's not uncommon at all for guys to want to talk and gain together, but for me personally I just find it too weird to go through with.

gaining with other guys: non gay?3 years

You could just not be homophobic.

Society is weird when it comes to stuff like this. Athletes get naked in room full of other naked guys on a regular basis and it doesn't come across as gay. 2 straight women can walk down the street holding hands or arms locked and they're still straight. So I see nothing wrong with enjoying something you like with someone else.
I think it's fine and even mentally healthy to be that open and accepting.
Get a gainer buddy and go to a buffet to see who can eat the most!

gaining with other guys: non gay?3 years

While I wouldn't have any issues with getting stuffed with other guys, I think it would end up more of a competitive thing than a sexual one.
Also, I would also feel most comfortable in mixed company, both girls and boys, than I would with just guys or just me and girls.

gaining with other guys: non gay?3 years

moremuscle:
Ok i just wanted some of your guys' opinions on this. I've had a girlfriend of 2 years, and she doesn't know about my fetish. But it doesn't really apply to her. I want her to be fit, I'm not really into chubby girls. I love her to death, she's the girl of my dreams and I know I'm not gay. So, that being said. I do get turned on by the thought of other guys getting fat. Especially like fit guys that work out & have muscles. I think I want to get fat one day too, just not right now. So I guess what I'm asking is,
Guys: do you think it would be weird to gain with another straight guy, in a non-sexual way? Like going out to eat a lot; talking about getting fatter; showing off each other's bellies, etc.?
Girls: feel free to chime in too of what you think.


I'm in the same boat. This is what I want to do

gaining with other guys: non gay?3 years

Further, I certainly enjoy platonic feederism.

gaining with other guys: non gay?6 months

Here's another perspective: I thought I was attracted to big men and gainers because I was turned on by thinking about it but it turned out that my brain was confusing wanting to be them with wanting to be with them. My wife calls it FUBU (do I want to f you or be you?) I had trouble getting it because I didn't want to believe I was transgender for a very long time but yeah FUBU is a very common thing even with people who aren't even remotely trans because sexuality is pretty complicated to say the least especially if you have a fetish for things that most people don't consider inherently sexual.

gaining with other guys: non gay?5 months

moremuscle:
Ok i just wanted some of your guys' opinions on this. I've had a girlfriend of 2 years, and she doesn't know about my fetish. But it doesn't really apply to her. I want her to be fit, I'm not really into chubby girls. I love her to death, she's the girl of my dreams and I know I'm not gay. So, that being said. I do get turned on by the thought of other guys getting fat. Especially like fit guys that work out & have muscles. I think I want to get fat one day too, just not right now. So I guess what I'm asking is,
Guys: do you think it would be weird to gain with another straight guy, in a non-sexual way? Like going out to eat a lot; talking about getting fatter; showing off each other's bellies, etc.?
Girls: feel free to chime in too of what you think.

Bulkingup:
I'm in the same boat. This is what I want to do


I have a girl's body and find girls getting fat a turn-on, but I'm not sexually attracted to girls at all, so, same, I guess. I think it's because it's close to what would happen to MY body if I got fat.

gaining with other guys: non gay?1 month

I donít think itís gay. My roommate and I frequently pig out on food, and he is straight (full disclosure, I am gay). He isnít a gainer, but he knows I am. I often wish I had a straight feeder friend to gorge with, because it feels tantamount to cheating on my boyfriend to gain ďplatonicallyĒ with another gay guy. Itís nice to be able to gorge around my roommate, but I really wish I could be totally open about how much Iím enjoying the process. He is very supportive of me, but Iím sure he would feel awkward if I were rubbing my belly or speaking longingly about getting fatter. If I had a straight feeder bud to gain with, I could really lean into the eating sessions and also engage in open encouragement dialogue, without fear of coming across as unfaithful to my partner. This would really help the feeling of loneliness I sometimes feel when gaining weight ó I donít have anyone i can openly talk about my progress and feelings with.

gaining with other guys: non gay?1 month

I'm open to the idea of a gaining buddy even, if they were a homosexual male.

We could share tips, support one another and have competitions (eating, gaining etc...). Essentially we treat it as a shared hobby.

gaining with other guys: non gay?1 month

I don't believe that we should even consider it. Just because a guy wants to encourage, and assist, another guy to do something that he wants to do, shouldn't be considered a homosexual activity.
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