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turning out like my mother3 weeks

i guess this is something i have been thinking about lately... as i look at my new body and my new shape, and see it sort of morphing into almost an exact replica of my mum's.

its very weird, as i always thought ofher as different to me, by far, so its an odd feeling, and realisation, but i suppose, something i want to explore.

i always kinda tried to be "anti" her in a way, now i look back... but the idea of going down that route is exciting, almost like a downward spiral, kidna like throwing my "looks" away, sort of

maybe ditching the punky look, and more goign down this chunky, short haired and kinda frumpy path.

who knows.

turning out like my mother3 weeks

WasSkinnyNowNot:
i guess this is something i have been thinking about lately... as i look at my new body and my new shape, and see it sort of morphing into almost an exact replica of my mum's.

its very weird, as i always thought ofher as different to me, by far, so its an odd feeling, and realisation, but i suppose, something i want to explore.

i always kinda tried to be "anti" her in a way, now i look back... but the idea of going down that route is exciting, almost like a downward spiral, kidna like throwing my "looks" away, sort of

maybe ditching the punky look, and more goign down this chunky, short haired and kinda frumpy path.

who knows.


"Frumpy" doesn't seem like a word you use to describe something you desire, but maybe I'm wrong. Do you want to be frumpy, or was this just a random word that you picked to describe the body type you're hoping to attain?

Because I don't see any reason why you have to give up on your looks just because you are starting to physically resemble your mum. You can be chubby AND punky, if that's what you like!

turning out like my mother3 weeks

WasSkinnyNowNot:
i guess this is something i have been thinking about lately... as i look at my new body and my new shape, and see it sort of morphing into almost an exact replica of my mum's.

its very weird, as i always thought ofher as different to me, by far, so its an odd feeling, and realisation, but i suppose, something i want to explore.



i always kinda tried to be "anti" her in a way, now i look back... but the idea of going down that route is exciting, almost like a downward spiral, kidna like throwing my "looks" away, sort of

maybe ditching the punky look, and more goign down this chunky, short haired and kinda frumpy path.
Frumpy can be sexy!!
who knows.

turning out like my mother3 weeks

Jex919:
"Frumpy" doesn't seem like a word you use to describe something you desire, but maybe I'm wrong. Do you want to be frumpy, or was this just a random word that you picked to describe the body type you're hoping to attain?

Because I don't see any reason why you have to give up on your looks just because you are starting to physically resemble your mum. You can be chubby AND punky, if that's what you like![/quote]

i didnt say that you arent, of course you can. and loads of people are that way. this is more of a kinda weird/side kinda thing ive thought of. its just a different way of looking at it.

turning out like my mother3 weeks

WasSkinnyNowNot:
i guess this is something i have been thinking about lately... as i look at my new body and my new shape, and see it sort of morphing into almost an exact replica of my mum's.

its very weird, as i always thought ofher as different to me, by far, so its an odd feeling, and realisation, but i suppose, something i want to explore.

i always kinda tried to be "anti" her in a way, now i look back... but the idea of going down that route is exciting, almost like a downward spiral, kidna like throwing my "looks" away, sort of

maybe ditching the punky look, and more goign down this chunky, short haired and kinda frumpy path.

who knows.


Mmmm, you don't look frumpy, and you can be chubby, or fat and still be sexy and attractive. Short hair or long hair can be attractive, and punky or not can be hot.

turning out like my mother3 weeks

hmm. ok the intent hasn't come across. oh well.

turning out like my mother2 weeks

What specifically about turning into your mother excites you? Wearing her clothes? Looking like her? It is definitely something that I am sure more people are into then you realize.

turning out like my mother2 weeks

We all become more like our parents as we grow up, no matter what weight.

turning out like my mother2 weeks

I read your post with interest. You seem very comfortable with your increasing size and excited with how you see your body changing. My understanding of your post is you are starting to see yourself morphing into your mother, you have the same build and shape. Correct me if I am wrong but when you were younger and slim you could not understand how your mother let herself go and become a fat frumpy woman? But now it has become a exciting prospect to let go of yourself not have to put make up on or style your hair in any particular style. Just short and simple easy to manage. Not having to dress in any style just what you can find cheaply and is comfortable to wear? You now see your mother as a inspiration and would like to be just like her? Basically you have given up being slim and have decided you prefer being larger and for the image you have for yourself is to be like your mother. I suggest you may have already subconsciously started to take that course by the bikini you chose in your recent pictures it is modest if you do not mind me saying. I hope you find what you are comfortable and happy with. Just be who you want to be. All the previous quotes are not wrong. Only you know how you want to be in the future. Good luck.

turning out like my mother2 weeks

bat man uk:
I read your post with interest. You seem very comfortable with your increasing size and excited with how you see your body changing. My understanding of your post is you are starting to see yourself morphing into your mother, you have the same build and shape. Correct me if I am wrong but when you were younger and slim you could not understand how your mother let herself go and become a fat frumpy woman? But now it has become a exciting prospect to let go of yourself not have to put make up on or style your hair in any particular style. Just short and simple easy to manage. Not having to dress in any style just what you can find cheaply and is comfortable to wear? You now see your mother as a inspiration and would like to be just like her? Basically you have given up being slim and have decided you prefer being larger and for the image you have for yourself is to be like your mother. I suggest you may have already subconsciously started to take that course by the bikini you chose in your recent pictures it is modest if you do not mind me saying. I hope you find what you are comfortable and happy with. Just be who you want to be. All the previous quotes are not wrong. Only you know how you want to be in the future. Good luck.


Thanks for putting in the effort and understanding .... there are def elements to what you say... when younger not understanding how she got that way etc (she used to be slim when she was younger) and there's an element of "throwing away" what I had... and like it's spiralling, a lil out of control. Which is scary and exciting...

it's all not in a positive/negative kind of way. More like a "well this is odd, let's see what happens"

And the idea of shifting how I was style wise is interesting to me. I'm very into the idea of change/transformation... and this is just another element of it morphing.
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