Shaming encourages me, too. Message me if you want to be email shaming pen pals. I love fat shaming (when its in good fun and part of our fetish, but out in the real world, I'd never allow bullying, to be clear). I love it when fat appreciators tell me what a fat pig I am or how fat I look, etc. I can give it back. I can be mild or mean and I can take it mild or mean from a fellow FA.