Gaining

Coming out as a feedist to your partner...

Easier for feeders than feedees? Or vice versa?
6 years

Coming out as a feedist to your partner...

I've had a few girlfriends and i've been a feeder and now feedee. ive come out to 4. Its never worked out. Two of them even divulged to mutual friends(fml)...but o well, i am who i am. sorry im not sorry lol

...As a feeder, i got more resistance like she thought she wasn't good enough as she was. THings went better as a feedee...In general, things are usually easier when you're not affecting someone else. It also has a better chance to work out if they have an open mind.

good luck....or just meet someone on here?
6 years