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girlfriend wants to get immobile4 months

I do not know if it is right forum here. But I have the following question or help.

My girlfriend (soon engaged) is a feedee and wants to be immobile. But she would like to weigh a weight of 1 ton. I have already tried her with the 1000kg excuse, because I think that it is impossible to reach this weight. But she wants it absolutely. I talked to her about the possible health risks. But she knows her and she wants to break the record which she would reach with 1 ton weight. I do not know what to do, I love her very much, I will always support my girlfriend (soon engaged). But I am also concerned about her health

girlfriend wants to get immobile4 months

cornsnake:
I do not know if it is right forum here. But I have the following question or help.

My girlfriend (soon engaged) is a feedee and wants to be immobile. But she would like to weigh a weight of 1 ton. I have already tried her with the 1000kg excuse, because I think that it is impossible to reach this weight. But she wants it absolutely. I talked to her about the possible health risks. But she knows her and she wants to break the record which she would reach with 1 ton weight. I do not know what to do, I love her very much, I will always support my girlfriend (soon engaged). But I am also concerned about her health


You are right to be concerned about her health. Is she very big right now? Is she gaining? How determined to get immobile is she? Is this something she wants to accomplish with you or is she willing to do this no matter what?

I feel like we need more information.

girlfriend wants to get immobile4 months

Yes she is still gaining and yeah she is big her last weight was 110kg ,but I think its more meanwhile. With the immobilty she wants this with me.But she really want this with the 1000kg . I aksed her again why she want this and she said it makes her happy to gain weight she feels more beautiful.Okay for me she will be always the most beautiful woman ever no matter what she weighs.I would do everything for her and i know she would do the same. And Isaw pictures as she was skinny and she looked not happy.Cuz she told me her ex boyfriend forced her to lose weight until she had a weigh of 60kg and she had a weight 0f 120kg before. Now she gained more than 50kg back.

girlfriend wants to get immobile4 months

cornsnake:
Yes she is still gaining and yeah she is big her last weight was 110kg ,but I think its more meanwhile. With the immobilty she wants this with me.But she really want this with the 1000kg . I aksed her again why she want this and she said it makes her happy to gain weight she feels more beautiful.Okay for me she will be always the most beautiful woman ever no matter what she weighs.I would do everything for her and i know she would do the same. And Isaw pictures as she was skinny and she looked not happy.Cuz she told me her ex boyfriend forced her to lose weight until she had a weigh of 60kg and she had a weight 0f 120kg before. Now she gained more than 50kg back.


Does she realize what being immobile entails like being catheterized or being diapered for both pee and poop as well as skin breakdowns and being bathed and so on

girlfriend wants to get immobile4 months

yes she know it. I talked with her about this and yesterday again but she said only "I know the possible healthy risks and what immobilty means and I want to become immobile"

girlfriend wants to get immobile4 months

She will get bored before reaching such a high weight, i think

girlfriend wants to get immobile4 months

alfayomega:
She will get bored before reaching such a high weight, i think


This may be right. Just agree to short-term goals for now (150 kgs first), and see how she feels as she reaches them.

I suspect once she has a few health concerns or problems, she may back off from her original idea.

Still, if you are uncertain about going to her immobility goal, express your opinion. Then, you can commit to a smaller goal, and see how things go in increments. This gives you a way out if you do not enjoy this, and it also gives her a way out.

Best to you.

girlfriend wants to get immobile4 months

Agreed. Check back in a few pounds with her.

alfayomega:
She will get bored before reaching such a high weight, i think

GrowingLoveHandles:
This may be right. Just agree to short-term goals for now (150 kgs first), and see how she feels as she reaches them.

I suspect once she has a few health concerns or problems, she may back off from her original idea.

Still, if you are uncertain about going to her immobility goal, express your opinion. Then, you can commit to a smaller goal, and see how things go in increments. This gives you a way out if you do not enjoy this, and it also gives her a way out.

Best to you.

girlfriend wants to get immobile4 months

Sorry for my late reply .it was a very stressfull week.Yes but she still want to become immobile ,she means this serious she bought a few weight gain shakes. And we made a every year weight goal and for this year its 50kg.But next year on our wedding day she want to weigh 200kg+.

girlfriend wants to get immobile4 months

How do you feel about the way she is behaving,?

cornsnake:
Sorry for my late reply .it was a very stressfull week.Yes but she still want to become immobile ,she means this serious she bought a few weight gain shakes. And we made a every year weight goal and for this year its 50kg.But next year on our wedding day she want to weigh 200kg+.
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