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is it better to ask permission or ask forgiveness5 months

Hey everybody, just wanted your opinions on this one! Feel free to be creative. Openness is key to understanding 😃

So, in a relationship (and mainly in the bedroom or while cuddling), is it better to ask permission to do something adventurous and new? Or is it better to try it and then apologize if the person isn't okay/down with it?

Again openness is welcomed

is it better to ask permission or ask forgiveness5 months

When it comes to bedroom stuff, permission, always, no exceptions.

is it better to ask permission or ask forgiveness5 months

As you say, openness is key, and communicating desires is being open. Asking for forgiveness is just taking what you want and hoping the other person will put up with your shit.

is it better to ask permission or ask forgiveness5 months

Ask permission.

is it better to ask permission or ask forgiveness5 months

embsmu:
When it comes to bedroom stuff, permission, always, no exceptions.


This. Even if you only ask them, "is it okay if we try something new?" Bedroom activities should always be consensual.

is it better to ask permission or ask forgiveness5 months

The only situation in which you should not be asking permission if if you have already arranged ahead of time for some sort of consensual non-consent type situation.