joined 3 weeks
As in any fetish, you don't have just the black and the white, but also all the grey shades in between. Personally, I consider women beyond 300-330 lbs to be getting less attractive with further weight gain (not to offend anybody, just my personal taste). Despite the fact that I like to see girls gaining and to see myself gaining as both a feeder and a feedee. So you are definitely not alone, just look for people in this community who share your attitude.