General

First off, tell her that took love her as she is. I wouldn't dive in to the fetish stuff right away, but mention that you find her sexy as ever. It's not a lie! Be prepared to prove you mean it . I know I love lingerie gifts and it's not necessarily a bad gift regardless of her weight plans to help her feel better about herself. Adore Me is fantastic!

She may still want to lose the weight. She is your wife so you should be there for her even if she decides to lose. Don't necessarily sabotage her loss either. You don't want to hurt her self esteem or be sneaky .

have you tried showing her this place?