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is gaining as a guy even worth the hassle?5 days

I've seen lots of guys try their darnest to get bigger and get barely any views, I'm talking about the guys that have 150 pics with 4-8 views each.

I'd personally would love to gain weight, but after seeing things like this I always back out of it, so much time and food wasted. Yikes!

What do y'all guys think? I know there are plenty of ffas out there that love chunky guys, but you might as well be looking for a unicorn in a sea of narwhals

is gaining as a guy even worth the hassle?5 days

I would never advise anyone to gain weight in the hope of finding a partner.

is gaining as a guy even worth the hassle?5 days

Fabruccio:
I've seen lots of guys try their darnest to get bigger and get barely any views, I'm talking about the guys that have 150 pics with 4-8 views each.

I'd personally would love to gain weight, but after seeing things like this I always back out of it, so much time and food wasted. Yikes!

What do y'all guys think? I know there are plenty of ffas out there that love chunky guys, but you might as well be looking for a unicorn in a sea of narwhals


Thatís why I just choose not to. I still post pictures, but thatís only from gaining weight without intending to from my love of junk food. smiley Men go Gaga for BBWs, and itís a shame that women donít show the same enthusiasm to BHMs!!! I feel ya!!!

is gaining as a guy even worth the hassle?3 days

august:
I would never advise anyone to gain weight in the hope of finding a partner.


100% Agree with August. Gain because YOU want to gain, or don't gain at all. Because the last thing you want to do is go through a full body transformation in hopes of finding a partner, and then feeling unhappy about your body later on.

is gaining as a guy even worth the hassle?3 days


AestheticLeg:
100% Agree with August. Gain because YOU want to gain, or don't gain at all. Because the last thing you want to do is go through a full body transformation in hopes of finding a partner, and then feeling unhappy about your body later on.


Good advice!

Another way to look at it: Gain because you want to be bigger. Don't associate this fetish with attaining (or changing) a relationship. If it fits in with your relationship, great - but relationships are so much more, and fat fetishism will only ever be a minor part of that.

Gain only because it's your desire - don't expect it will fix anything else in your life!

is gaining as a guy even worth the hassle?3 days

+1 to everything that has been said on this thread so far: You gotta gain for you and you alone. It's pretty important!

As to frustrations about lack of attention from FFAs to male gainers ... yeah, I mean I sorta feel that too. I don't get as much activity on my posts here or on Tumblr as I'd like, but I'm also genderqueer, so it's kinda double niche on my end. Anytime I feel down about lack of engagement I take a breath and remember that I'm doing this primarily for myself, so as long as I'm happy and fulfilled it's all good.

Which is why it's super important to gain for yourself because YOU want to. Don't fall into the trap of basing your self-esteem on outside forces.

is gaining as a guy even worth the hassle?2 days

I happen to appreciate a slightly chubby guy, no older than 25, but then again I'm a guy myself...
I would say the younger guys on here need to be more open to male affection.
I had no idea I preferred certain types of guys over women in general until I gave it a shot.

is gaining as a guy even worth the hassle?2 days

I like gaining because the idea of transforming in to a plump fat guy is super erotic to me. Loosing control and eating like a pig is so hot. I have felt this way since I was a young child.

I am straight, but it's a bonus of bot men and women appreciate my growing rolls and fattness.

is gaining as a guy even worth the hassle?2 days

Personally I see gaining publicly something like The Hunger Games, you can go in and succeed without needing outside help, but you can also try and play up to the audience to receive help and have an easier time.
Also I kinda just want to be like really fat lol

is gaining as a guy even worth the hassle?22 hours

AyLmaokai:
Personally I see gaining publicly something like The Hunger Games, you can go in and succeed without needing outside help, but you can also try and play up to the audience to receive help and have an easier time.
Also I kinda just want to be like really fat lol


What I'm trying to say is that success means nothing if you have no one to share it with, I've been going to the gym for about 2 years now and I've gotten decent results, and attention from everyone. Telling me how good I look, and how I'm so "easy on the eyes". I feel like gaining as a guy would only do the opposite.

I mean who wouldn't want to be really fat lol
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