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telling my partner2 months

Hello all,
I've always been self conscious about this kink but I don't know how to bring it up to my girlfriend, or have her understand. I want to tell her because she is on the chubbier side but I also don't want here to hold it against me/find it rude that I find her chubbiness attractive. I thought maybe you all could provide some help.

Cheers

telling my partner2 months

I would go very slowly and look for clues. You say she is chubby. Does she talk about losing weight? Is she OK with her weight? Does she like to eat? Start out by letting her know you like larger women. Then perhaps make jokes about seeing her get larger and see how she reacts. Does she reject the idea of getting larger? Does it gross her out? Or perhaps she would like to enjoy eating more.