Like most kinks I find it best to just ask what a girl is into... f'instance I used to date a girl who loved... LOVED the spanking... even more so with a riding crop or my belt... (no, really) but I would never just whip the riding crop out for a girl I'd just met whose non-vanilla turn ons I didn't yet know...
definitely. Not to a point where it's on display with family or friends...but making me try on clothes (and model them) that are way too small never hurts, or having 2 or 3 (or 5) lunches at a food court is always a fun time... ^_^
I love fat-related humiliation and degradation, but definitely not in public (I had enough public humiliation in grade school to last a lifetime). Or at least not overtly in public. I might find something is humiliating that wouldn't even raise notice from someone who wasn't in on it. But in private I guess just about anything goes.
I would totally love to role play fat humilation games, both as a receiver of the humiliation, the instigator or both simultaneously. Something like pretending to be a new diet clinic or health club client and being evaluated, weighed, measured and scolded for being too fat. This would be in private, of course, This would be with ladies only, of course. This would be fun.
billiebunter wrote: yeah I like it!!! which is odd cause I see myself as a very strong woman oh well
That's not terribly uncommon. From what I understand anyway... something about the role reversal - real life you're strong but in a safe environment it's nice to be the weak one or let someone else be the dominate one. I understand it's nut uncommon for dominate/powerful males - CEOs, judges, military or political leaders, etc to enjoy being submissive in the bedroom.
oh why dont you live here!!!!! .. ASs i expect you can guess from my name . this is EXACTLY why i am here xx
supertrooper wrote: can i ask why you feel this way ive heard of alot of people who like this and most of them are girls and i was woundering why is this?
I think it has to do with the submissive part. Goes back a long time ago....haha like caveman times Girls are submissive and Men are the dominant ones. But it can also be the other way around too though. Not sure if more girls like it more than guys do.
Humiliation is a part of being submissive whether it is being called fat names or being tied up and given a golden shower lol. When you are humiliated its showing that you are submissive and willing to do whatever the dominant one wants you too. HOT! lol