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Relationship with a porn model

I think I'd be able to handle it because I'm not the jealous type. I tend to trust whoever I'm with so it's not like it'd be an issue having my girl showing off for the masses.
15 years

Relationship with a porn model

It was a deal breaker for me when I first met my wife to be. Let's face it, most guys can be obnoxious ***s, and I didn't want to be party to e-mails & comments directed to someone I was involved with. She (fortunately for me) decided that I was worth more to her than her website, and decided against pursuing a modeling career at that time.

We married a year later. Fast forward 3 years, and she received an offer to return to modeling. Nothing changed for me, however, as I still felt the same way about it. After negotiating what felt like the Middle East Peace Treaty, she returned to modeling for a paysite.

I struggle with it to this day. We view what she does differently. Her photos are hot, but no nudity. I still see it as guys pay to fap to her pics, and say it how you want it, but it's porn. So, it's really been up to me to make the adjustments. I support her in her endeavor because I love her, so I do the photos, handle her MySpace, forward things to her that require a personal answer, act as her agent, all in the name of love.......................smiley.

It's both a help and a hindrance to be involved to that extent, but let's just say that for me, it's filled with both good and bad.
15 years