I’ve been on and off for a long time. When i try to reach out to someone the response i get is usually “oh are you a feeder? If so send me money!” Or “no response due to lack of pics which is sad. I don’t post pics mainly because I’ve seen co workers on this site and I’m not trying to mix my work life with my personal life. It can push people much like myself away from the site. I prefer this site to feabie but feabie overall seems to be much more active.