Edxl


Gatineau, Quebec, Canada  
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Edxl 3 years
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“damn, i’m fat”
Going to pick something off the ground, and missing it because my belly got in the way and I didn't manage to bend over as far as I'd intended.

When I started shopping for 2XL shirts and a jacke...
Edxl 3 years
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over 200lb?? how?!
While BMI is a very imperfect measure, it somewhat lets you compare body sizes across different heights. Yours would be around 36 or 37, and that was right about where my wife began to 'feel too f...
Edxl 3 years
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pool visit
I remember when my wife got to that point -- it turned me on something shocking smiley I still savor that memory some 20+ years later (ever after that she has always used a ladder or ramp ladder w...
Edxl 3 years
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helping non-feedee feel comfortable with her weight
I've been through the same thing. A few things that seem to have worked some for me.

- lots of general physical attention (not just when it is about sex). Words speak louder than actions and a...
Edxl 3 years
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how do you know if you like fat on others only or if you like fat on yourself?
There can be so many pieces to loving fat. The feel of being fat, the look of being fat, the reaction of others to you being fat, the way fat feels on another person, the way it looks on another p...
Edxl 3 years
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so much conflict
Yah, a lot of us are pulled both ways. I've tried to compromise by being just a little fat, so I could kind of straddle both worlds, but over the years what 'a little fat' means has increased and ...
Edxl 3 years
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how?
I'm of the 'always been into it in some way' group. Not active feedism, but as a pre-schooler I spent a lot of time thinking about the nursery rhyme Jack Spratt, and a few years later when I read ...
Edxl 3 years
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what weight loss of mobility?
I agree that is a low weight, it really does sound like back issues. Have you talked with medical professionals about your back? (Yes, many will just be 'lose weight' but if you keep working at it...
Edxl 3 years
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lack of appetite
A bit of a brain dump below, sorry for so many words. All just based on my experiences and reading, not claiming the ultimate truth to any of this. And of course every body is different.

To be...
Edxl 3 years
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fantasy feeders new look - we want your opinion!
Agreed that it is a more current look. I have no issues with the current layout/look, but I can imagine that to new comers it may make the site look dated.
Edxl 3 years
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popping button off jeans
Be aware that a lot of buttons are sewn on really well! Jeans buttons in particular are often pretty tough. If you really want to pop a button, either choose pants where the button is already get...
Edxl 3 years
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tips for overcoming the embarrassment
Extra snacking can make a real difference too. (especially if working from home, but also any job where it is an option). Setting her up with some small chocolate bits or M&Ms, a sleeve of cookie...
Edxl 3 years
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lesser-known foods/strategies for "healthy" gaining?
Oatmeal is a good thing to have, because it contains soluble fibre, which apparently helps clear build up out of our arteries (or something like that). But it doesn't slow down digestion in th...
Edxl 3 years
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how to snakc while studying
Things that don't make your hands sticky, and don't drop crumbs (don't want to have to go clean after each snack)

Things that you can have sitting out with you (don't need to keep them chilled)
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Edxl 3 years
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fatphobic parents
Basically you need to communicate. Let your parents know that your gf is fat, that you love her, and that if they want to meet her you expect them to behave. I mean, you can choose your time, lik...
Edxl 3 years
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lesser-known foods/strategies for "healthy" gaining?
Do a web search on glycemic index, basically a measure of how much/fast your blood sugar spikes up in response to eating various foods. Generally foods with more fibre digest more slowly, so some ...
Edxl 3 years
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what do you think is sexier in regards to gaining?
Anyone who is fat and happy is sexy af to me, no matter how they get there. So both are good.
Edxl 3 years
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gain 20lbs in a week, is it actually possible?
You shouldn't ever be feeling acute pain (stabs of pain, etc). More sort of an ache and quite a bit of discomfort, especially if you try to bend or move too quickly. You are also likely to fi...
Edxl 3 years
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is heavy cream the same as double cream?
I don't know if everyone's usage is the same as this, but here is one reference: https://whatscookingamerica.net/Sauces_Condiments/CreamDefinitions.htm

Drinking too much cream is apt to give yo...
Edxl 3 years
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fat lifestyle tips?
I guess it is all in how your fat is distributed? For me when getting something off the floor these days it is usually spreading my feet out to either side, wider than shoulder width, then ben...