TheWhipHand


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TheWhipHand 2 months
What is the hottest cause for someone who's been maintaining weight, to suddenly start gaining?
The secret desire to gain, yet trying hard to “follow the rules”. My husband was secretly a little porker, a plump little delicacy waiting for someone to let him just let go of this insecurity ...
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TheWhipHand 4 months
Soft feeding ideas
I try to remind my husband how much I love him soft and fat. Especially when he was fattening up and needed a lot of reassurance this set him at ease about his size. Now it makes his plump litt...
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TheWhipHand 4 months
Do feeders exist who want to take on (dedicated) starter feedees?
[description=forum]Of course there are. There’s nothing more thrilling than fattening someone up from scratch, watching them slowly but sure fatten up. Once they come around and trust me, let me guide them, it
TheWhipHand 4 months
Practical fat habits
Constant snacking, no matter how big or small. When dating my husband I used to hand him a packet of cookies after his class. A few months later I was walking by the building where he had class, to...
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TheWhipHand 4 months
Are straight female feeders/encouragers common?
I’m not sure about how statistically common such a thing would be, but I enjoy being able to be open about this fetish. I’ve successfully fattened about four or five people (people I know and k...
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TheWhipHand 6 months
Fattening boyfriend
Tough one. Maybe try finding out why he feels the need to lose weight. My little husband had been a chubby little boy, but had been put on a strict diet. Over time he internalised the need to b...
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TheWhipHand 6 months
Woke up last night to eat
That’s excellent. 👏 keep it up
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TheWhipHand 2 years
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i finally gave in, and it was great!
I've heard this from feedees all the time. One friend spent Lockdown indulging every food desire he's ever had, and gained a good 50 lbs. He had to lose it for work, but he couldn't help himsel...
TheWhipHand 2 years
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changing self image
This happened to my little butterball at various times. Although it can be startling, after the shock wears off it can also be comforting.
I think you should enjoy being your own size, and th...
TheWhipHand 2 years
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looking for the fastest most unhealthy way of gaining
One thing my little butterball did a lot of in his early days of gaining was essentially a dessert tour. When we would go out, I would let him stop at every store that sold pastries or desserts. Ev...
TheWhipHand 2 years
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fattening up your husband or boyfriends
Oh, goodness. When I met the little man, he was just a freshman in college. He didn't start "gaining" properly until we moved in together. He looked cute with a few extra pounds, so I wanted to...
TheWhipHand 2 years
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any advice for a new feeder?
Others have already given good input, but I have to say, I enjoyed fattening my little husband so much, and it took a while. In general, though, it was more satisfying. Although speed can be th...
TheWhipHand 2 years
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how should i get my start gaining and not feel anxious
That is just the control talking. Personally, I think you should have a feeder, as it's good to have someone else to guide you. Once you let go of the need to control, and find someone who will hel...
TheWhipHand 3 years
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dangers of quarantine
This is the time to get rid of those awful habits you have, and slow down. How much have you been eating and how have you been slowing your metabolism?
TheWhipHand 3 years
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need tips to keep stuffing on past stuffed
Sounds like you're coming along just fine. Personally, I'm for slow and steady. Focus on finishing rather than being "fast".
Make sure you take time to enjoy that feeling of just past full - You ...
TheWhipHand 3 years
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how many female feeders are on here?
I am one. Generally I like the guy in question to be a little chubby already, or else be inclined to be chubby. When I met the little husband, he had a secret love of sweets and doing nothing, ...
TheWhipHand 3 years
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how much fat can you gain in a month?
It varies greatly. Some, like the little husband, are inclined to be fat and can soak up a dramatic amount for the food they eat. It also depends on activity level, their taste, and various other f...
TheWhipHand 3 years
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do you have kids? does that change anything for you?
For a while, my daughter made me not want to do ANYTHING else lol.
All joking aside, I have to say instilling healthy habits is really important to me. It makes some more challenges for the l...
TheWhipHand 3 years
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closet feeders
I'm afraid I've been slipping into this category for some time. Any time someone tells me they don't like exercise or something, I slip in.
Recently an acquaintance and I were working out and t...
TheWhipHand 3 years
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how to be a dominant feeder for my bf.
Oh, is this fun. Dominance mixed with feeding is simply the best of both worlds. So many places to go.
I have too much to say, but the first thing is to create expectations for your feedee. M...
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