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confronting so about my own gain
My SO is very polite, so I'm sure this would never come up IRL.
Generally speaking, she'll very kindly disagree with me if I mention that I've gained weight or am getting fat. I have stashed aw...
confronting so about my own gain
My SO is very polite, so I'm sure this would never come up IRL.
Generally speaking, she'll very kindly disagree with me if I mention that I've gained weight or am getting fat. I have stashed aw...
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how big is your belly ?
What cracks me up is that while this is clearly a completely unscientific quiz, as I've taken it over the years it's proved to actually be fairly accurate. I started out at somewhere in the 30% ra...
how big is your belly ?
What cracks me up is that while this is clearly a completely unscientific quiz, as I've taken it over the years it's proved to actually be fairly accurate. I started out at somewhere in the 30% ra...
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crossing the threshold of being officially overweight
I distinctly remember when I "crossed over" (I think I posted about it here actually) at 187lbs. As someone who had always been skinny/fit it was rather shocking. The first 10-15 pounds I had gai...
crossing the threshold of being officially overweight
I distinctly remember when I "crossed over" (I think I posted about it here actually) at 187lbs. As someone who had always been skinny/fit it was rather shocking. The first 10-15 pounds I had gai...
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wardrobe purge
I do occasionally, more just out of being pragmatic about closet space than anything else. In the past it was always purging clothes from 5-10 years ago, but lately it's accelerated to clothes bei...
wardrobe purge
I do occasionally, more just out of being pragmatic about closet space than anything else. In the past it was always purging clothes from 5-10 years ago, but lately it's accelerated to clothes bei...
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standing or sitting
I was gonna say, when you're standing is when you know your gain is getting serious. When my belly only hung over my pants when I was sitting I could kind of justify it as "well EVERYONE has a lit...
standing or sitting
I was gonna say, when you're standing is when you know your gain is getting serious. When my belly only hung over my pants when I was sitting I could kind of justify it as "well EVERYONE has a lit...
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showing someone how big your belly really is
Whenever I talk to my wife about having gained weight she accuses me of pushing my belly out to be dramatic. Really it's just that I stop sucking it in and "all of a sudden" she can see my gut for...
showing someone how big your belly really is
Whenever I talk to my wife about having gained weight she accuses me of pushing my belly out to be dramatic. Really it's just that I stop sucking it in and "all of a sudden" she can see my gut for...
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fat at the doctors
I haven't gotten the talk yet, but I wouldn't be surprised if it's coming soon. Last time I was at the doc I was about 190 and was told that my weight "...wasn't bad..." with some noticeable hesit...
fat at the doctors
I haven't gotten the talk yet, but I wouldn't be surprised if it's coming soon. Last time I was at the doc I was about 190 and was told that my weight "...wasn't bad..." with some noticeable hesit...
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bmi. what's yours?
27.4 here. Looking back thru this thread I see I answered it a while ago with a BMI 25.4. Funny to think at the time it was so weird to be "technically" overweight for the first time in my life. ...
bmi. what's yours?
27.4 here. Looking back thru this thread I see I answered it a while ago with a BMI 25.4. Funny to think at the time it was so weird to be "technically" overweight for the first time in my life. ...
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revisiting old posts
Curious if anyone else does this. Every once in a while I spend some time digging back through my old post history on this site. It's fascinating to reminisce on all the "firsts" and "man I'm fat...
revisiting old posts
Curious if anyone else does this. Every once in a while I spend some time digging back through my old post history on this site. It's fascinating to reminisce on all the "firsts" and "man I'm fat...
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revisiting old posts
Curious if anyone else does this. Every once in a while I spend some time digging back through my old post history on this site. It's fascinating to reminisce on all the "firsts" and "man I'm fat...
revisiting old posts
Curious if anyone else does this. Every once in a while I spend some time digging back through my old post history on this site. It's fascinating to reminisce on all the "firsts" and "man I'm fat...
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what little differences have you noticed recently?
I've had a couple. One was the first time I've ever had a stranger comment on my weight. I was chatting with someone I'd just met about how I (apparently) look just like a guy he knows. In additi...
what little differences have you noticed recently?
I've had a couple. One was the first time I've ever had a stranger comment on my weight. I was chatting with someone I'd just met about how I (apparently) look just like a guy he knows. In additi...
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expecting pants to fit - and they don’t
Haha, the Target in my area still has the fitting rooms closed due to covid so it's always fun guessing game about if any new pants will fit. I got lucky with my old size a few months ago, so when...
expecting pants to fit - and they don’t
Haha, the Target in my area still has the fitting rooms closed due to covid so it's always fun guessing game about if any new pants will fit. I got lucky with my old size a few months ago, so when...
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sucking your stomach in
I'm definitely almost always half sucking it in, especially for photos since I'm still kind of self conscious about gaining weight. A while ago, I mentioned having put on some weight to my wife. ...
sucking your stomach in
I'm definitely almost always half sucking it in, especially for photos since I'm still kind of self conscious about gaining weight. A while ago, I mentioned having put on some weight to my wife. ...
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quarantine gain
About 10-15lbs for me. Also losing some muscle mass, so getting softer and softer
quarantine gain
About 10-15lbs for me. Also losing some muscle mass, so getting softer and softer
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clothes feel good
Ugh, I'm a similar boat right now. My inventory of pants that I can bear to sit in for a long period of time is rapidly diminishing. I drive a lot for work, so I have to choose between being unco...
clothes feel good
Ugh, I'm a similar boat right now. My inventory of pants that I can bear to sit in for a long period of time is rapidly diminishing. I drive a lot for work, so I have to choose between being unco...
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when did it hit that you're fat.
It was this site, I think! I've enjoyed reading (and looking at) this site since back in the day when I was in my athletic prime so as much as I enjoyed the content I never could personally relate...
when did it hit that you're fat.
It was this site, I think! I've enjoyed reading (and looking at) this site since back in the day when I was in my athletic prime so as much as I enjoyed the content I never could personally relate...
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expecting pants to fit - and they don’t
So like everyone else I've packed on some pounds during quarantine. Right now though all of my pants still seem to fit. I think it's just my belly pushing them lower and sticking out further over...
expecting pants to fit - and they don’t
So like everyone else I've packed on some pounds during quarantine. Right now though all of my pants still seem to fit. I think it's just my belly pushing them lower and sticking out further over...
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quarantine weight gain
Only about 10lbs for me, but it's a big 10lbs. It's what officially put me juuuuuust up to 200lbs. It's also what crossed me over from being just a little overweight (according to a BMI chart) to...
quarantine weight gain
Only about 10lbs for me, but it's a big 10lbs. It's what officially put me juuuuuust up to 200lbs. It's also what crossed me over from being just a little overweight (according to a BMI chart) to...
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when was the moment it dawned on you that you were fat?
I remember a few years ago the first time my stats listed me as "overweight" on an online BMI test thing. At the time alarm bells were going off, and I was berating myself about how I could have l...
when was the moment it dawned on you that you were fat?
I remember a few years ago the first time my stats listed me as "overweight" on an online BMI test thing. At the time alarm bells were going off, and I was berating myself about how I could have l...
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how big is your belly ?
So, this quiz is obviously not very scientific. But it's interesting that I distinctly remember taking it when this post first came up and I was somewhere (I want to say) in the low 30%. I just r...
how big is your belly ?
So, this quiz is obviously not very scientific. But it's interesting that I distinctly remember taking it when this post first came up and I was somewhere (I want to say) in the low 30%. I just r...