Johniav


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Johniav 2 years
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who was thin and got fat
All of my life, I've been thin. Around the age of 38, I started putting on weight to the point of others pointing out that I looked like i'd been eating . I don't know what I'm classified now...
Johniav 2 years
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medications and weight gain
Do you feel as though the side effects are worth it?
Johniav 3 years
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anyone else want to be kidnapped and fattened?
Well, sometimes I would think that it would be awesome and then again being brought out of the house by a crane may not be my idea of a fun Saturday.
Johniav 3 years
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have you ever wanted to backtrack on your weight gain out of shock
Yes, it can be startling.
Johniav 3 years
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have you ever wanted to backtrack on your weight gain out of shock
I can imagine. It's hard to anticipate the consequences both good and bad.
Johniav 3 years
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what was the most memorable teasing about your weight that you enjoyed?
What is your favorite memory of being teased about your weight?
Mine was when I was in college and I ran up a flight of stairs so as to not be late for class, and a classmate said " You're out of ...
Johniav 3 years
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have you ever wanted to backtrack on your weight gain out of shock
I can relate to certain aspects of what all of you have said. On one hand, you think that you will like it and then realize that you have gone far enough where people at least notice that you are ...
Johniav 3 years
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absurd fantasy dream size?
Of course this is only fantasy:: And since I'm short this seems uncomfortably possible. Mine is to look very round as emphasized by my stature. Unfortunately it wouldn't take but about 30 to 50 mo...
Johniav 3 years
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have you ever wanted to backtrack on your weight gain out of shock
Have any of you attempted to gain weight and then suddenly freaked out after realizing that you're actually getting really fat. This question was born out of a personal experience.
Johniav 3 years
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when you became fat, did people treat you differently?
I'm sorry to hear that. Life is complicated for sure.
Johniav 3 years
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when you became fat, did people treat you differently?
My mother is a great lady. However, she always makes it a point to let me know when I have gained weight.
Johniav 3 years
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when you became fat, did people treat you differently?
I've been considered short and thin all of my life. When I hit 40, my metabolism slowed down and I plumped up quickly. I recieved a mixture of reactions. Some were VERY friendly with me while other...
Johniav 3 years
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my experience of the psychological effects of fat phobia
And regardless of what others think, it isn't any of their business. It is up to each of us to assess the value of any decision.
Johniav 3 years
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anybody else feel shame/embarrassment?
I certainly can relate to the embarrassment. Being a very short guy, I'm hit with a double whammy with each pound. I seem to embody two forms in which people discriminate. I'm not just a short guy,...
Johniav 3 years
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the fatter i get, the more feminine i feel
I don't know that I've felt this way. I just tend to feel shorter the fatter I get.
Johniav 3 years
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my experience of the psychological effects of fat phobia
It seems as though some overweight people discriminate against other overweight people. We often dislike others who exhibit what we're ashamed of in ourselves. It's very unfortunate.
Johniav 3 years
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my experience of the psychological effects of fat phobia
You're right. Every pound is noticeable on me. People have light heartily joked about how I've obviously been eating lately. Although being short and fat for a guy is a different experience.
Johniav 3 years
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my experience of the psychological effects of fat phobia
I agree. I feel liberated. I'm certainly getting used to being more authentic in this context. I've learned a lot this week from doing this. People have responded positively towards me and I ofte...
Johniav 3 years
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my experience of the psychological effects of fat phobia
I understand the embarrassment completely. It is quite eye opening to consider just how we inadvertently fall into adjusting our appearances to please others. In relation to how you described you...
Johniav 3 years
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my experience of the psychological effects of fat phobia
I have recently come to understand that all of my life, I've held my stomach in. I was terrified of anyone seeing any roundness in my stomach area. I didn't realize it until I measured my waiste th...
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