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How to fatten up your partner

MrCuddles:
I’m looking for tips on how to increase my feedees weight. I have already talked with her about the situation and she is on board. Just wondering if there’s anyway to make her weight gain go faster or any tips that will help the gain go smoother


Well, what are you guys already doing?
3 weeks

How to fatten up your partner

MrCuddles:
We are doing stuffings though out the week and adding a little extra to each meal


Nice! What's your dynamic? Are you guys into extreme weight gain? What's her limit and comfort zone? How much has she gained thus far?
3 weeks

How to fatten up your partner

MrCuddles:
So far she’s gained 30 pounds since we’ve been together and she wants to hit 250 and go from there. She wants to gain till immobility as quick as possible is what she as told me. I’ve have been trying to keep her on a somewhat safe gain that way she doesn’t over do it and loses interest in it. But she’s more submissive in this relationship


Hm. I wouldn't do it if I were you.

To be clear, I'm not kink-shaming. I honestly do not care. But I don't think you two are ready for that.

Your profile says you are 22. I don't know anything about you, but the average 22-year-old is usually in college with little money. Gaining til immobility is a huge commitment. You need to be able to afford food, clothing, medical care, and mobility aids at high weights.

I don't know if you are the sole provider or if you guys are splitting expenses, but there will be a time when she will heavily rely on you for all her needs, such as feeding, toileting, bathing, etc. She might be able to get a fully remote job, but that's not a guarantee.

Feeding someone to immobility is akin to marriage in a way. Can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this person? If not, then maybe you want to shoot for a lower weight. If so, then take your time and focus on getting yourself to a point where this arrangement won't burden either of you.
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How to fatten up your partner

MrCuddles:
As of right now I’m done with school and she only as one more year and we currently split the cost for everything. She also has a side gig where the content she makes she sells which is how we’re paying for the food she eats. And I do see myself being with her for a long time so I don’t have a problem being the provider. As for the future you are right I’ve haven’t thought about all of that stuff yet but I’m glad you mentioned it because it will be something we have to think about


Yeah, it's super important to think about that. Not having a plan will put huge amounts of stress on your relationship. For now, I'd limit her gains to the outer edge of her comfort zone. It's cool that she has a side gig where she sells fetish content, but most fetish models only do that for a few years before tapping out. So, I'd figure out something more sustainable in the long term.

Can you two see her doing this in the next 5, 10 years? Will she have enough income from that to keep up with her food costs? The bigger she gets, the more she'll need to keep eating. Speaking as an extreme feeder, the food costs alone add up really fat after a certain point.

If you see yourself with her for decades to come, then there isn't a rush. Take the time to sort things out. Plus, if you go too fast or hard, she'll get sick and tap out. I see this happen a lot with extreme gainers and rapid gainers. They keep chugging along until around the 350 - 600 lbs range when everything starts to go wrong. Sometimes, they even have to completely give up because of the damage they've done to their body.

If you want to reach immobility, you need to focus on sustainability and not speed. Plus, there's a non-zero chance she might change her mind. I've met a lot of people who wanted to be immobile in real life, but at some point, they realized they preferred fantasy to reality. Most of them settle for being very fat with limited mobility. Only a small handful follow through because once you are immobile, there's essentially no going back.

Again, I'm not kink-shaming. I'm only saying this so that you and your partner achieve whatever outcome makes you two happy.
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