I’ve been an off and on gainer my entire adult life. Switching between dirty gains and weight lifting because I like being big but my own self judgment gets in the way of letting go.
That said, I read Existential Kink and it helped me to reframe my unconscious desire and my conscious reaction or judgment. As a result, I’m able to take more pleasure for my unconscious desires than I allowed myself to in the past.
Does anyone have other good books they’d recommend that help to increase your self-acceptance or pleasure? Or just any good books that are adjacent to the lifestyle?
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