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reckless gaining11 months

It is probably true that most people here have fantasized about that type of reckless abandon and lack of care.

I must admit I have had these fantasies about my wife in which she gives into the lack of care and eats unhealthy to get massive but these are just fantasies.

In reality:
Do I want fi to get fat? Yes.
Obese? Yes.
Morbidly obese? No.
Do I want her to eat junk food nonstop? Yes.
Do I want her to have to deal with the medical issues that would come from such a poor diet? No, of course not, but then again...

It's hot.

My point is that there's fantasia d there's reality and while Fi is still 60 pounds from her goal she means everything to me and, in my eyes, is perfect.

So I'm happy with her gaining the healthy way even though it takes longer.

Doesn't mean I don't fantasize about her downing a cheesecake and heavy cream everynight and going full on fatty without a care in the world.

reckless gaining11 months

I've got some experience with this since I've been giving in more and more over the last 9-ish months, to a point where I now 100% relate to the stuff described in the op lol.

My encourager is supportive of my ideology that I could either live my life thin and longing, or fat and satisfied- so the fact that we both happen to be fine with and enjoy the extreme end of obesity and my going off the edge is a really, really sweet bonus.

In the past I tried to gain the "right" way and personally? I prefer the "wrong" way of total hedonism and gluttony. I'm fully aware of the health risks associated with my weight, eating habits, and lack of exercise, but I really don't care nearly as much as I probably should. I prefer doing what makes me happy, so even though I experience some ill effects from it I'd rather not lose weight or change my habits and be unhappy.

It's definitely not for everyone, but hey, different strokes and all that.

reckless gaining11 months

Blossoming:
Can there not be something like...tempered recklessness? How about a month of no holds barred wanton gluttony that allows the feeder/feedee to witness and experience big gains and changes. Since the behavior has a terminus, the long term negative effects of similar long term behaviors are not present. All of the fun, none of the diabetes...

Playing on the edge doesn't mean everyone falls. We have already placed ourselves in dangerous territory, but we don't all choose to balance atop the guardrail.


Takes away the uncertainty. No surprises for either feeder or feedee. In the meantime, break all the rules and enjoy with abandon. In 30 days see where you are

reckless gaining11 months

The only problem I see with wanton, reckless gaining is the possibility that you lose whatever semblance of self-control you may have had!

reckless gaining11 months

For me, it would take away the thrill. One of the most satissatisfying things to watch as I fatten up the little Butterball, is watching is self control slowly melt away. We had this huge dinner with a few feedees and feeders who were much larger than he is, and watching him simply eat just because of his company was heartening.
But it is slowly watching him go for another serving, finish another dish, and develop hunger where he would have been fine a few months ago...that's satisfying.

reckless gaining11 months

@ Blossoming: This is your very existence. Your Life. Not merely a fetish / experiment. Do be wise, and do what is right for you, and nobody else. I would recommend that for any Fetish, or any undertaking for that matter. Do what makes You happy.

reckless gaining11 months

TheWhipHand:
For me, it would take away the thrill. One of the most satissatisfying things to watch as I fatten up the little Butterball, is watching is self control slowly melt away. We had this huge dinner with a few feedees and feeders who were much larger than he is, and watching him simply eat just because of his company was heartening.
But it is slowly watching him go for another serving, finish another dish, and develop hunger where he would have been fine a few months ago...that's satisfying.

Hedonistic_Purity:
So easily influenced. You could get him to do...anything for approval.


He's a good little man.

reckless gaining10 months

Hedonistic_Purity:
You're a born pig. It's not complicated. If you let a feeder into your life, it's over.[/quote]

yes destroy me - 2 mil when i pop

reckless gaining10 months

If you let a feeder into your life, is it really over...
or has it just begun? ^___~


For me, one wonderful thing about fattening up my wife is how she keeps reaching milestones of getting "too fat for X" and either not noticing it or actually enjoying it.

She got too fat for clothing stores, and started ordering online. Then she got too fat for regular pants entirely, had to switch to leggings and elastic skirts. She really doesn't care.
I've never seen her wear a belt in her life.

She got too fat to stand up in the shower, and now just sits in the tub. She got too fat for the dinner table, and now she just eats half naked on the floor with her belly between her legs. Why not, she really deserves to relax at home.

She liked to ride on top during sex, but got too fat to do anything but lie down on the mattress. She's much softer than the mattress.
I told her this, and said she hadn't even noticed she was getting so fat it was impacting her sex, because I did such a good job of pleasing her.
She's so big she confessed she can't even find her own vagina without a mirror. She looked proud!

She even got so fat, the shop where she works had to introduce an "optional" new uniform (a big apron) because the old polo shirts didn't go large enough to cover her belly all the way.

reckless gaining10 months

Abandoning yourself to gaining is the most fantastic thing you can do. Every instinct tells you to ber careful but there is a great sense of liberation when you give in to your life-long onsession. I find that now I am morbidly obese I enjoy everything about, even if that sounds somewhat perverse.

I like the fact that, except on the internet, I find it difficult to buy clothes that fit me. I like the fact that people prejudge me when I first meet them. I enjoy having to make calculations all the time: can I fit in that seat, can I get into that car,... I find pleasure even in the ways obesity restricts what I can do: can I pick that up, can I walk that far, why am I always hot, why am I always out of breath, why am I always ravenously hungry...

reckless gaining10 months

kevingainer:
I like the fact that people prejudge me when I first meet them. I enjoy having to make calculations all the time: can I fit in that seat, can I get into that car,... I find pleasure even in the ways obesity restricts what I can do: can I pick that up, can I walk that far, why am I always hot, why am I always out of breath, why am I always ravenously hungry...


Yes yes yes yes yes - this. As much as it is an inconvenience, it is the price of being big. Love these things! (Maybe not the always being hot, because I am a sweaty guy - but all the rest.)

reckless gaining9 months

Feedmebiggerbrenda:
I love it I wish I could do it it would speed up gaining


Your awesome.

reckless gaining9 months

i cant wait till the moment that i find the right person, so i can start gaining, stop caring about what i eat, just eating any shit i like, and know that my girl still loves me
what a dream

reckless gaining9 months

This is about to happen to me. I've entered into a relationship with a feeder who is completely interested in force feeding me heavy cream, cheesecake filling, and that sort of thing, and keeping me sedentary, if not frequently cuffed to the bed when I'm at home. I'm very excited to learn my own breaking point.

reckless gaining8 months

Youíre so very lucky donít ever forget that

reckless gaining8 months

For me much of the turn on is from the unhealthiness, I know I'll be dead by 30 and that I'll end up with too many chronic health problems to name, but it doesn't phase me. I'm 20 stone and can fell my body struggling. Walking more than a couple of minutes gets me out of breath and when I eat greasy food my chest starts to fell weird. My helplessness and lack of willpower really turns me on.

reckless gaining8 months

obeseteengainer:
For me much of the turn on is from the unhealthiness, I know I'll be dead by 30 and that I'll end up with too many chronic health problems to name, but it doesn't phase me. I'm 20 stone and can fell my body struggling. Walking more than a couple of minutes gets me out of breath and when I eat greasy food my chest starts to fell weird. My helplessness and lack of willpower really turns me on.


Very well written and I wish I had had such a clear vision of what MG future should be. Just took me a few years to get to your clarity

reckless gaining8 months

obeseteengainer:
For me much of the turn on is from the unhealthiness, I know I'll be dead by 30 and that I'll end up with too many chronic health problems to name, but it doesn't phase me. I'm 20 stone and can fell my body struggling. Walking more than a couple of minutes gets me out of breath and when I eat greasy food my chest starts to fell weird. My helplessness and lack of willpower really turns me on.


You might want to optimise your life a bit. Don't get too ill too soon or you won't get to be super fat or enjoy it for as long.

If you can keep hauling your fat body around with strength and energy you can get fatter and enjoy yourself more. You can still keep the same aim but longer term and grander.

reckless gaining8 months

Hedonistic_Purity:
There is a right way to gain. With relatively healthy food, staying active, pacing yourself.

And then there is gaining weight or fattening someone as fast as possible. Literally avoiding healthy food unless it's surrounded by processed fat, flour, and sugar. Guzzling soda. Not leaving the couch, letting those muscles atrophy. Descending into morbid obesity with complete reckless abandon and no regard for health.

It's what you really want. Have you given in? Enabled? Do you spend every day waiting for the dam to break?

somefatgirl:
I find the thought of this incredibly hot and often think about finding a feeder who will help this become a reality.


Yes, YEs...YES!!! Sign me up!

reckless gaining8 months

TheWhipHand:
For me, it would take away the thrill. One of the most satissatisfying things to watch as I fatten up the little Butterball, is watching is self control slowly melt away. We had this huge dinner with a few feedees and feeders who were much larger than he is, and watching him simply eat just because of his company was heartening.
But it is slowly watching him go for another serving, finish another dish, and develop hunger where he would have been fine a few months ago...that's satisfying.


Wait, you have feedee friends that you meet in real life to eat with? How did you meet them? I have yet to meet anyone in real life that shares our fetish

reckless gaining5 months

TheWhipHand:
For me, it would take away the thrill. One of the most satissatisfying things to watch as I fatten up the little Butterball, is watching is self control slowly melt away. We had this huge dinner with a few feedees and feeders who were much larger than he is, and watching him simply eat just because of his company was heartening.
But it is slowly watching him go for another serving, finish another dish, and develop hunger where he would have been fine a few months ago...that's satisfying.

Curious 1:
Wait, you have feedee friends that you meet in real life to eat with? How did you meet them? I have yet to meet anyone in real life that shares our fetish


A friend of mine used to be a little chubby. She started dating this fellow who really fattened her up, and we had a moment of recognition between the two of us. So once in a while yeah we have a dinner together where we fatten our little piggies and make sure they eat...well, everything. They got married and had a baby, and she's pregnant again so she isn't currently being fattened, but we still get together and encourage others. It's all rather hedonistic and fun.

reckless gaining5 months

TheWhipHand:
For me, it would take away the thrill. One of the most satissatisfying things to watch as I fatten up the little Butterball, is watching is self control slowly melt away. We had this huge dinner with a few feedees and feeders who were much larger than he is, and watching him simply eat just because of his company was heartening.
But it is slowly watching him go for another serving, finish another dish, and develop hunger where he would have been fine a few months ago...that's satisfying.

Curious 1:
Wait, you have feedee friends that you meet in real life to eat with? How did you meet them? I have yet to meet anyone in real life that shares our fetish

TheWhipHand:
A friend of mine used to be a little chubby. She started dating this fellow who really fattened her up, and we had a moment of recognition between the two of us. So once in a while yeah we have a dinner together where we fatten our little piggies and make sure they eat...well, everything. They got married and had a baby, and she's pregnant again so she isn't currently being fattened, but we still get together and encourage others. It's all rather hedonistic and fun.


Wow, I would love to be the victum/feedee of two feeder like this. Especialy two dommes. smiley

reckless gaining4 months

TheWhipHand:
For me, it would take away the thrill. One of the most satissatisfying things to watch as I fatten up the little Butterball, is watching is self control slowly melt away. We had this huge dinner with a few feedees and feeders who were much larger than he is, and watching him simply eat just because of his company was heartening.
But it is slowly watching him go for another serving, finish another dish, and develop hunger where he would have been fine a few months ago...that's satisfying.

Curious 1:
Wait, you have feedee friends that you meet in real life to eat with? How did you meet them? I have yet to meet anyone in real life that shares our fetish


I agree the thrill is in watching a piggy lose control and stuff uncontrollably. I love when my piggy gets gassy after eating snacks late at night. That is the sound of her gaining. Her belly processing calories and turning them into fat.

reckless gaining4 months

I eat what and how much I want. I do like a variety of foods so I more or less get a "balanced diet" ....plus a ton of carbs and sweets.

The only things I can think of that hold me back are lack of funds, lack of food at home, and when eating with others trying not to eat their portion of dinner.

reckless gaining4 months

PinkyDear:
I eat what and how much I want. I do like a variety of foods so I more or less get a "balanced diet" ....plus a ton of carbs and sweets.

The only things I can think of that hold me back are lack of funds, lack of food at home, and when eating with others trying not to eat their portion of dinner.


Speaking of hot (!) there's an image: a SSBBW eating not just her own portion, but someone else's as well. Wow.

reckless gaining4 months

It doesn't even have to be a SSBBW. In high school, I was friends with someone who was only around 200, and she would eat absolutely everything that other people at the lunch table didn't finish. She even begged us for more every now and then, which was incredibly hot.

reckless gaining4 months

When I go grocery shopping, I tend to go for healthy-ish items in my staple shopping trip. Bananas, yoghurt, salad, ect. But the issue for me is that because my brain is so fickle in what it wants. My real food binges are bought spur of the moment on the way home from work, or late at night when I have absolutely nothing to do. So Iíll eat relatively healthy every other meal, but when Iím just sitting there for hours eating some of this and some of that? Thatís where Taco Bell and whole bags of chips come in.

reckless gaining3 months

kevingainer:
Abandoning yourself to gaining is the most fantastic thing you can do. Every instinct tells you to ber careful but there is a great sense of liberation when you give in to your life-long onsession. I find that now I am morbidly obese I enjoy everything about, even if that sounds somewhat perverse.

I like the fact that, except on the internet, I find it difficult to buy clothes that fit me. I like the fact that people prejudge me when I first meet them. I enjoy having to make calculations all the time: can I fit in that seat, can I get into that car,... I find pleasure even in the ways obesity restricts what I can do: can I pick that up, can I walk that far, why am I always hot, why am I always out of breath, why am I always ravenously hungry...
Same 😊

reckless gaining3 months

bigfoodie95:
I've always drunk a lot of soda, and have typically gone for sugar free. I made the switch the sugary, and it's seen my weight balloon up. I know I should be careful, my weight has been increasingly on my belly which is the unhealthiest, but I can't stop. I'm addicted to it, and I love the feeling of growing. I love every new inch, every new stretch mark. I love getting out of breath walking increasingly shorter distances. It's just too fun!!


That's what I love too, knowing it's do unbelievably unhealthy but doing it anyway and seeing just how much it ruins your fitness and health. Feels so good knowing I've done this to myself and I doubt it can be reversed even if I did eat healthier as my body is that strained at this size and how bad I eat.

reckless gaining3 months

bigfoodie95:
I've always drunk a lot of soda, and have typically gone for sugar free. I made the switch the sugary, and it's seen my weight balloon up. I know I should be careful, my weight has been increasingly on my belly which is the unhealthiest, but I can't stop. I'm addicted to it, and I love the feeling of growing. I love every new inch, every new stretch mark. I love getting out of breath walking increasingly shorter distances. It's just too fun!!
Same here!It turns me on like nothing else!
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