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telling my wife about my fetish4 months

Iíve been on FF for probably 10 years and have been attracted to fat or chubby girls for as long as I remember. Iíve been happily married now for 8 years to a girl who has always been a bit overweight but has recently lost probably 20-25kg(50lbs) She still says she is fat but I keep telling her she is beautiful and sexy and that she doesnít need to lose any weight. I drop a lot of hints, I donít know how much more obvious I can make it with out actually saying it but I still think she has no idea that I have a fat fetish. How can I get through to her? I find her attractive now too, but I do really miss her big belly and huge tits

telling my wife about my fetish4 months

The best way is that you tell her and see what happens. Because more you keep it inside and don't tell her, the more you will stress yourself and that is no good for anyone's health. Just tell her and see how she reacts. We all have our needs. If she doesn't understand then she does not get that thing.

telling my wife about my fetish4 months

I'm wondering how, after 8 years of marriage, you're still wondering how to communicate with your wife.

Just tell her your preference. Tell her you like her chubby. Simple as that.

telling my wife about my fetish4 months

Gingerbeard:
I'm wondering how, after 8 years of marriage, you're still wondering how to communicate with your wife.

Just tell her your preference. Tell her you like her chubby. Simple as that.


I wish it really was as simple as that.

telling my wife about my fetish3 months

Gingerbeard:
I'm wondering how, after 8 years of marriage, you're still wondering how to communicate with your wife.

Just tell her your preference. Tell her you like her chubby. Simple as that.

bbwamore:
I wish it really was as simple as that.


I'm divorced now after a 9yr relationship and of that marriage for 5! I was tactful with how I expressed my tastes.. but her insecurities got the best of her and the whole relationship blew up! I was mindful that her body is hers and I had no right to expect her to fulfil my desires.. but that didn't stop her spinning into a resentful hate, even though I was supporting her either way loss or gain. It's not easy even when you are honest...

telling my wife about my fetish3 months

I just thought my husband liked me for my personality. We dated for three years then he told me about this fetish and now here I I'm on fantasy feeder showing off all my curves and now I'm into it. I enjoy stuffing funneling weigh ins measuring. You should wing it until you find a bbw who would be open sexually.

telling my wife about my fetish3 months

After a couple of pretty disastrous long term relationships, I'm making a point of not dating "normies" any more. I'm seeing an actual feeder now and I gotta tell you guys

It's so much better being able to openly discuss your weird fat-related fantasies with a partner who is into it. There's no stress about getting judged or whatever. It's nice.

telling my wife about my fetish3 months

I see these posts from time to time: "how do I tell my wife to stop dieting because I like fat women." The point is NOT whether you like her fat, the point is if SHE likes her fat. Which is a good reason not to only pick a fat woman for a mate, but to pick someone who enjoys being fat.

telling my wife about my fetish3 months

Greengiant7:
I just thought my husband liked me for my personality. We dated for three years then he told me about this fetish and now here I I'm on fantasy feeder showing off all my curves and now I'm into it. I enjoy stuffing funneling weigh ins measuring. You should wing it until you find a bbw who would be open sexually.


Hmmm...
So you are saying your then boyfriend was into this fetish and told you later

How did you two meet then if not on a site like FF?

telling my wife about my fetish3 months

we met the old fashioned way, he saw me at a party and started talking to me.
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