General

I don't care too much. Noticed that if I gain a bit too much I sleep bad as I lay uncomfortably.

My wife likes me with a flat stomach. Doesn't need to be a six pack, just not a really belly

I'm into bodybuilding (many of you probably recall my old avatar) and maintain a very lean figure 10-12% BF in the winter 9-10% in summer. That said, my caloric intake is ridiculously high to maintain my muscle 3,500cal+/6-8 meals a day.

It actually fits quite congruently with being a feeder as I'm always cooking even at 11 at night prepping meals for the next day – go to the grocery store almost nightly. So my wife has learned the routine "if you're going to the store any ways, might as well pick me up _____." She stays well fed!

I love the dichotomy of me being in fit shape and my princess growing more sedentary.