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Is being on this site considered cheating?

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5 years

Is being on this site considered cheating?

chubbycreep:
Ok so I�m in a very serious and committed relationship, but not only does my s/o not appreciate my fetish but he doesn�t know about it.
So is coming on here bad? Like I really like chatting w/ different people who have a similar fetish as me but I�m not looking for anything. Is it my intention that matters, or is it bad being on this site in general?


Hell no
5 years

Is being on this site considered cheating?

It's not cheating.

It IS, however, a waste of time if you don't plan to follow through with anything.

Kind of like going to a swimming pool and never jumping in. What's the point?
5 years

Is being on this site considered cheating?

becomingoverweight:
The mere act of being on a kink site and talking to other people is not cheating. It only becomes cheating when you try to hook up with someone else.


No, any time you get turned on by anything that's not your partner is cheating. I'm cheating right now.
5 years

Is being on this site considered cheating?

if you have to ask... yes
5 years

Is being on this site considered cheating?

I don’t consider this site, grommr, xtube, tumblr and the like to be cheating unless you follow through with something more than internet chatting or masturbating to porn or other fantasy.

I’m not sure I even consider raunchy sexting cheating as long as both parties know it’s only fun fantasy and will never go further. However, I think the line is crossed with cam2cam, Skype (or whatever it’s called) masturbation. Grommr members are notorious for wanting to wank on camera. My own profile says I don’t do it, don’t want to, can’t do it, so don’t bother asking.

I’m there and here to talk about something we can’t ordinarily talk about irl. In fact a couple of guys I chat with on Grommr said to me first they just want to talk about weight gain, food, clothes.
5 years

Is being on this site considered cheating?

becomingoverweight:
The mere act of being on a kink site and talking to other people is not cheating. It only becomes cheating when you try to hook up with someone else.

JackSteven:
No, any time you get turned on by anything that's not your partner is cheating. I'm cheating right now.

Vanity Fair:
I'm cheating on my boyfriend with a cheeseburger at exactly this moment.


My Feedee considers it cheating if I eat at MacDonald's or Toby Carvery when I am out at work.
5 years