It works both ways.
I have messaged a couple of ladies asking about completely none-fat related topics, for example if they put they are really into music on their profile, and I ask about what sort of music they are into (and it's because I am genuinely interested).
It annoys me when they have not got the manners to even reply, and makes me think they are 'only' interested in comments to boost their ego ie about how amazing they are and look.
5 years
