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Learning to forgive and forget?

It never gets better when you get married. It gets worse.
5 years

Learning to forgive and forget?

Hmm, relationships are TOUGH. Everybody is struggling, really NOBODY knows how a good one works and how to get it.
But one thing I know is: Don't chose lightly, if you want to marry, chose well and picky. Many people just chose the first person that comes along.
Alcohol abuse is a really tough one. Make sure you remember that he can get out of it, but he might not. Set a time limit when he works on getting himself cleaned up. If he doesn't, it likely will never get better, EVER, then get a better relationship.
5 years