I stopped saying "no, you're not fat at all!, which she knew was a lie, and started saying things like "honesty, I prefer you with a bit of meat on you"
Another time it was about dieting and I told her I'm willing to help but that I don't want to be the food police; "I prefer you with a bit of meat on you so for me when you ask for something you maybe shou;dn't have on your diet, I rather give it to you"
After a bit that turned into "so you're into fat women?" "I don't know; I know I prefer you a bit igger"
Over time this became an overt thing up to the point where when she would mention to a GF she had gained weight, I would add that I think she looks good, and she would say/explain "he likes my belly"
Meanwhile, normalize touching her fat. Incorporate it into your every day touching. Run your hand over her back, squeeze a fat roll, move on. She's used to guys being into her boobs and wanting to touch those; make her feel that way about the rest of her body
4 years
