^^ I think this sums it up pretty well.

Hmmm not really the point of an mmorpg but each to their own.

I've recently taken up my old vice of WoW. Starting a fresh on the US servers, I hear there was an FF guild called Hungry Hungry Hippogryphs, is it still going?

I can see how necro-ing this thread so its on the front of the general forum, is a good way to make current and perspective members feel good about themselves...

Oh wait...

I hear what your saying about the UK losing all its own sustainability, and how outsourcing everything is worrying for the future.

However the UK couldn't hope to compete with manufacturing and agricultural prices the rest of the world can offer. The cost of living would require wages so high for these services it would impact the cost of the final product so much, it wouldn't even be worth trying if you could.

Anyway thats a little off topic from the OP's dilemma. In regards to everyone saying perhaps they should just take anything they can get, if it means being able to eat and meet rent well then thats obvious. But I didn't get the impression people were quite at that stage, only disgruntled at being unable to get a position in there qualified field.

I don't want to offend anyone who is in the service industry, but if you are a highly qualified young professional working in such places will do nothing to help your resume or your future career. I'd recommend doing anything even slightly related to your field, temp and contract work is obvious, craigslist also has people requesting services even if its only a few hours, and dare I say it even consider doing free work just to put it on your resume!

If you can do this while holding down a job not in your desired field I commend you, but from what I've seen this doesn't often happen.

I took a few mins but heres my 5 songs:

Fat Bottomed Girls - Queen


She Was Skinny When I Met Her - Hayseed Dixie


Big Girl - Mika


The Spicy McHaggis Jig - Dropkick Murphys


Baby Got Back - Sir Mix Alot
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4he79krseU

They are in no way influenced by my fetish >.>

Lol? Surly color blind would have been funnier?

I can totally relate to your situation, and found myself joining this site for those very reasons.

Meeting someone who you connect with, find physically attractive, lives close enough for a relationship to work and shares fetish fantasies with you, is something I think the majority of us will find very hard.

If I had to give any advice it would be not to give up looking for someone who is already open and knows of the FA/Feeder scene. You might also meet someone who is not aware of it, who you can share it with. I imagine women join this site everyday who are discovering the fetish for the first time.

I terms of moving into the city I would totally recommend that. A few years ago I moved from a rural area into a major city and found my social circle increase massively. If your not keen on the bar scene I'd recommend joining a society or club, maybe sports, voluntary or hobby based, as a great way to meet people.

Not one to shy away from a good debate I was going to offer an comment on the the OP's topic.

However I have to say I found the fact you use dating sites to dupe men into contacting you, so you can make a quick buck off them the most immoral thing in this thread.

Much more then some guy offering his girl friend an extra piece of cake, even if he should perhaps express his feelings to her before he peruses it further.

I work for a large manufacturing company in Silicon Valley.