Nonbinary and trans fat appreciators

I’m gender-fluid/NB queer pan masc leaning fem. What a mess?! lol androgynous person 😸 I’m starting to come to terms with self expectance with the fact that I give off trans-masc vibes. the fact that I refuse to wear a she/her button - I’ve always been a tomboi.
Would like to make new friends with other people..
1 year

How to add oil to food ? =sick :-[blah

Umm.. So, lately I've been adding whipping cream (lite cream) to my cooking & in coffee. So I thought I had built up enough of a tolerance to it to add it as a main ingredient . I'm lactose intolerant. I made a soup, with equal parts. Cream & cream of Brocoli, low sodium. I usually water down the thick soup to sip it. But this time add the cream ... + coconut oil. (tasted ok.) major major MAJOR stomic pain/cramping. I had put two heaping tablespoons -think mountain spoons. + smashed up an Avacado into it.
I had thought it would lead me to a hot moment. But... I got dreadfully sick instead.

Something obviously went wrong in that plan of action. Just sharing ?? Anyone else have made this sort of miscalculation?
7 years