I am so very tired of the "jokes" at my expense, the constant unsolicited crap in my inbox, all the people that are "too shy" to show their bodies when drooling over others and failing to mention the partners they're cheating on and hiding from, the food pfps mouthbreathing everyone, all the threads about how to coerce and cajole people, the vile misogyny and ableism I receive for holding my boundaries firm, the fatphobic expectation that I should be *grateful* for the attention, all of it. You all say you want real things and then refuse to treat us like people. Every second of the day.
Traveling
I can't offer much by way of physical logistics as they apply to extra-large travelers, but I can offer what it is I do to keep travel costs down.
The first thing that comes to mind with regards...
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Haircuts and such
Oh if we're going with objectifying analogies, I keep playing the same note because what a shocker, you have absolutely no pitch or sense of tone and *still* can't manage to match the frequency...
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Haircuts and such
You do understand she is a whole person and not your personal doll to dress? Like seriously, this isn't that hard. "[wife's name], I just wanted to share how much your current hairstyle really ...
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Don't know if this counts but i love balloon stuffing or suit inflation
I've always wanted to get some berry suits. There are some cool models out there. I've also explored the idea of getting fillable bellies as well, but those are $$$
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This fetish never truly goes away, does it?
My interest in it always comes and goes. I am neurodivergent so I will hyperfocus on it sometimes then back off to work on life and health etc. But it's always been there. It's normal for everyone!
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How does the community cultivate more respect for real dating?
to answer your original thread question, it really starts with stuff outside of the community in general. If an individual enters it without respect for themselves or others, and is not held accoun...
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Could we get a agree to the chat rules pop up before being allowed to join chat
another thing I was thinking about today, perhaps down the road, is minimum *account* age in order to chat and/or DM. Lots of people constantly re-deleting accounts, going into chat, harassing peop...
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Could we get a agree to the chat rules pop up before being allowed to join chat
I'd much MUCh rather get a "user would like to private chat" popup like we used to int he old chat.
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Tagging/badging blocked users
Block lists can get full. They are created only in order of blockage and can't be sorted. They're a bit unwieldy. Is there any way to either get a way to search/sort the list or for us to see a lit...
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Can we geta rep system
I was not a fan of the rep system BUT I do think getting the verfied badge helps a lot. My karma was actually low because everyone thought I was fake lol.
Something that would be nice instead w...
Something that would be nice instead w...
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