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Edxl
1 year
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girlfriend secretly a feeder?
Maybe you could try joking something like "With all this stuff you are baking for me you could really make me fat -- but I'm not doing it without you. Eat half of your own baking, kitchen-witch!" ...
girlfriend secretly a feeder?
Maybe you could try joking something like "With all this stuff you are baking for me you could really make me fat -- but I'm not doing it without you. Eat half of your own baking, kitchen-witch!" ...
Edxl
1 year
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where are all the 40+ folks hiding?
54, and yup I used to be on Dimensions all the time (I still stop in occasionally, much like with here)
where are all the 40+ folks hiding?
54, and yup I used to be on Dimensions all the time (I still stop in occasionally, much like with here)
Edxl
2 years
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preggo and freaked!
Congratulations on your pregnancy, but yah, what an emotional roller-coaster.
We had a similar situation, had been taking a few chances but not really severe chances, but then she had some unt...
preggo and freaked!
Congratulations on your pregnancy, but yah, what an emotional roller-coaster.
We had a similar situation, had been taking a few chances but not really severe chances, but then she had some unt...
Edxl
2 years
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came out to partner... now what?
I agree with the others, let it sit ... in the specific. In the general, do make an extra effort to check in on how she is doing, and to do some activities that are very familiar and comforting to...
came out to partner... now what?
I agree with the others, let it sit ... in the specific. In the general, do make an extra effort to check in on how she is doing, and to do some activities that are very familiar and comforting to...
Edxl
2 years
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when does body size become effectively irreversible?
It is fairly uncommon for people to lose more than 10% of body weight and to then keep that off in the long run. So it depends a bit on what you consider 'fat' to look like, but that plus a bit mo...
when does body size become effectively irreversible?
It is fairly uncommon for people to lose more than 10% of body weight and to then keep that off in the long run. So it depends a bit on what you consider 'fat' to look like, but that plus a bit mo...
Edxl
2 years
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what's it like being fat in public?
I've never been especially fat (my heaviest was 240 pounds at 5'8". Fat enough that most stores didn't carry pants in my size and I needed to start buying 2X tops). But that was fat enough to hav...
what's it like being fat in public?
I've never been especially fat (my heaviest was 240 pounds at 5'8". Fat enough that most stores didn't carry pants in my size and I needed to start buying 2X tops). But that was fat enough to hav...
Edxl
2 years
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how to stress eat?
As a stress eater I can say that for me the payoff is the stress relief from a belly full of carbs, I don't know what chemicals get pumped into my brain but it is so comforting and soothing (plus i...
how to stress eat?
As a stress eater I can say that for me the payoff is the stress relief from a belly full of carbs, I don't know what chemicals get pumped into my brain but it is so comforting and soothing (plus i...
Edxl
2 years
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any feedee’s on a weight loss journey?
I really slacked off on my healthy lifestyle and indulged in a bit of my gainer fantasies in the first part of last year, becoming the most sedentary I've ever been and developing a near daily habi...
any feedee’s on a weight loss journey?
I really slacked off on my healthy lifestyle and indulged in a bit of my gainer fantasies in the first part of last year, becoming the most sedentary I've ever been and developing a near daily habi...
Edxl
2 years
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how do you cope with comments?
Here is one way to think about the effects of gaining weight -- thin privilege is totally a thing, and you are losing thin privilege. To some extent you never would have felt it when you were thin...
how do you cope with comments?
Here is one way to think about the effects of gaining weight -- thin privilege is totally a thing, and you are losing thin privilege. To some extent you never would have felt it when you were thin...
Edxl
2 years
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question for the big ones
Flattering!
Except, just maybe if I was with someone that I knew loved it, sometimes some mocking might be super hot, but that would have to be built on top of knowing 100% that they loved it.
question for the big ones
Flattering!
Except, just maybe if I was with someone that I knew loved it, sometimes some mocking might be super hot, but that would have to be built on top of knowing 100% that they loved it.
Edxl
2 years
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how do you cope with comments?
Possibly she didn't even know? If she'd been rejecting 'fat her', maybe she was also rejecting everything associated with it, including having a fat partner?
But then as she felt more secure ...
how do you cope with comments?
Possibly she didn't even know? If she'd been rejecting 'fat her', maybe she was also rejecting everything associated with it, including having a fat partner?
But then as she felt more secure ...
Edxl
2 years
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my partner is a feeder and i’m not a feedee
I'm a feeder/feedee/general-weight-gain-enthusiast as well as a fat admirer. My wife loves food and is a small bbw, but has no fat related kinks. We've been married for over 25 years, and if we'd...
my partner is a feeder and i’m not a feedee
I'm a feeder/feedee/general-weight-gain-enthusiast as well as a fat admirer. My wife loves food and is a small bbw, but has no fat related kinks. We've been married for over 25 years, and if we'd...
Edxl
2 years
Edxl
2 years
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the tables have turned.
You have pretty much lived my dream scenario, lol.
Did you gain deliberately, or just something that happened?
the tables have turned.
You have pretty much lived my dream scenario, lol.
Did you gain deliberately, or just something that happened?
Edxl
2 years
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50lbs and 40lbs up and curious to hear others' experiences
Good luck! It has been great reading your updates, and I hope you'll check in occasionally even if you are losing some.
50lbs and 40lbs up and curious to hear others' experiences
Good luck! It has been great reading your updates, and I hope you'll check in occasionally even if you are losing some.
Edxl
2 years
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small changes in my daily life to help me gain weight?
Like with a weight loss diet, a weight gain diet takes planning. Your body is used to a certain amount of food at certain times and you have existing habits for when and how much to eat. To beat ...
small changes in my daily life to help me gain weight?
Like with a weight loss diet, a weight gain diet takes planning. Your body is used to a certain amount of food at certain times and you have existing habits for when and how much to eat. To beat ...
Edxl
2 years
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me, 35f with gaining interest, not sure how to proceed with my partner (45m)...
The fact that he struggled to lose weight when he was younger doesn't mean that he won't/can't be into it. There are certainly people who grew up chubby and worked hard to 'fit in', but who never t...
me, 35f with gaining interest, not sure how to proceed with my partner (45m)...
The fact that he struggled to lose weight when he was younger doesn't mean that he won't/can't be into it. There are certainly people who grew up chubby and worked hard to 'fit in', but who never t...
Edxl
2 years
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the first time that you were referred to as " being overweight ".
I was a chunky kid, and I remember being called "fatty, fatty, 2x4" in kindergarten or grade one.
As far as a more clinical "overweight" comment I think it was a dermatologist that I saw for m...
the first time that you were referred to as " being overweight ".
I was a chunky kid, and I remember being called "fatty, fatty, 2x4" in kindergarten or grade one.
As far as a more clinical "overweight" comment I think it was a dermatologist that I saw for m...
Edxl
2 years
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housing and life needs
I have this dream where some billionaire buys out one of those retirement communities and repurposes it for other people with mobility issues, especially for super-fats. Already built for easy acc...
housing and life needs
I have this dream where some billionaire buys out one of those retirement communities and repurposes it for other people with mobility issues, especially for super-fats. Already built for easy acc...
