Dom. Best is when you sometimes pretend you're the one not having the power, but you actually have. You just want to make her think that. Although, deep down she herself knows she has no power. Twisted, but fun.
Sub-leaning switch here but definitely a submissive feedee. My ideal Feeder is a Master who knows his sub ultimately holds the power and that my submission is a gift but such is the implicit trust between us, he knows he has my consent for anything that's not a hard limit, even if it's never been explicitly discussed. As such I am rewarded with his adoration and mutual worship is our love language. My mouth is usually too full of food to use words anyway š
I was pretty heavily switch, but I'm finding out more and more how much of a sub I am-- especially when it comes to feedism. Finding a genuine dom is much harder than I'd ever expected, but I have hopes for the future, possibly.
Every relationship I've ever had wanted me to be a dom, so that's what I've had to be, but if I'm being honest, I'd really just rather sub. Something about just being told what to do to pleasure the other person seems relaxing and I get a bit turned on with humiliation.
CookNFeedin: Every relationship I've ever had wanted me to be a dom, so that's what I've had to be, but if I'm being honest, I'd really just rather sub. Something about just being told what to do to pleasure the other person seems relaxing and I get a bit turned on with humiliation.
If you want that, you should talk to your partner about your needs. Take turns being the sub.
Munchies: If you want that, you should talk to your partner about your needs. Take turns being the sub.[/quote]
We've talked about it before. Ultimately what it comes down to is that she needs the vibe and I'm just happy to be there, so need comes before want. At the end of the day, you know...yay sexy time, so there's no losing, but its nice to think about.