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Hello, I'm wondering how to tell my partner, that I'm into feederism and possibly mutual gaining. She probably never heard about it, so I'm considering how to do that and don't scare her. I love her very much, but I live in some sort of self-denial and it has a bad impact on our sexual life. We live together for almost an year and time to time I got problems with sexual arousal, because there is "something" missing. I would like to solve this situaliton, because it's really frustrating. Any advice?

As I have said before, it is very rare to find someone in a normal situation who is willing to gain. If you really need to be with a feedee, then you should search for a feedee.

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Probably the best/safest way to reveal is to just start off talking about turn-ons and turn-offs. Find out what she likes, and then in return reveal what you like. That way, I feel, it'll build trust.

I hope this helps.