piggyjessica:
There are some women who don't want to have sex because they believe they are too fat. Even if their partner adores their body they cannot mentally enjoy sex because they feel uncomfortable so they avoid sex.
I've been with a few recently gaining women that while they wanted and enjoyed sex were not comfortable with their bodies and it was a serious hinderance to my enjoyment. Having said that I've only met one fat girl that I think would do all three without concern : sit in my lap, lay on top of me/ or otherwise be on top without supporting their own weight, lay on the bed naked
, uncovered, with decent lighting.
Not that I have a fat girl litmus test, or have really had that many fat girls sit in my lap, but it's sad that a girl in the middle of making out is so concerned with supporting her weight. Or maybe it's just because I love feeling her belly and boobs squished against me.
BTW, if you read the whole study, obese men reported fewer partners- while overweight would include a lot of muscular, or board shouldered men ( the authors note George Bush had a BMI that made him overweight .). So i think the study mostly confirmed expectations. Even moreso for women( ie men will have sex with anything that moves)