Gaining

You may not have told him about being a feedee, but maybe he has picked up on it non-verbally. Or perhaps he has seen you here or talked to someone who knows you. Or maybe he is a feeder and has not told you, just like you have not told him about being a feedee.

My wife admitted to doing this over the course of a couple years. Eventually, when I thought I finally needed to lose some weight, she came out and told me - and she officially became my feeder, and me her feedee!

Hope the same happens to you! Enjoy!