I agree with Tubby Marie. I have a cousin whom I am very close with who is 5"4" tall and about 230 lbs. I always tell her she looks nice whenever I see her. Since we have an open relationship and she knows I like heavier women, she will sometimes say: "Thanks. I have gained XX lbs.". And my reply will still be: "You look really nice." I have told her that "You are still my favorite BBW" and she will smile and say "Your so nice" or something similar. So unless a woman likes to be teased about being fat which a number of women on this board admit to (usually best done in private however), keep the comments positive.
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