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I need to get all of this off my chest, finally. sorry for the length.

For what it is worth, I'd say you are totally normal. In the sense that lots of people have a some sort of uncommon turn on. So long as it doesn't stop you from also enjoying sex on its own, then I think it is more of a turn-on or preference than an actual fetish. If you have to be desperately thinking about jiggling bellies to get turned on, even when your husband is doing his best to excite you, then ok, maybe it is a fetish.

Either way, I agree that it is great to have places like this where you can unload there feelings and be around people who understand. Thank goodness for the internet!

Oh, about belly shape, I don't think that you can do a lot, but if you tone your stomach muscles that _might_ make your belly a little less saggy, just by giving it a firmer foundation. (I've noticed this with my wife's arms, got less jiggly when she had a job with lots of light arm use, got more jiggly when she went to a desk job, even at the same approximate weight and size)
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