Pip_Squeak: While I agree that there are probably a lot of girls out there like you describe, from what I've seen, they're very far and few between. It seems like 80% of the community is men and the remaining 20% are women that are comfortable enough to admit they like this kind of thing.
My question now becomes, "Is it really worth ending a relationship I've spent a long time investing in just for the slim chance I might meet someone who shares the same sexual kink?"
I feel like I could be wrong about everything though.
My question now becomes, "Is it really worth ending a relationship I've spent a long time investing in just for the slim chance I might meet someone who shares the same sexual kink?"
I feel like I could be wrong about everything though.
Your concerns are well-founded. The male-to-female and feeder-to-feedee ratio on this site and others like it is ridiculously disproportionate. Do you really want to have dozens of others in direct competition with you over each and every prospect?
Not to mention, members are spread out all over the world, so the slim chance (no pun intended) that you will find someone who lives within a reasonable distance of you *and* who wants a romantic relationship, makes abandoning a current relationship an iffy proposition at best.
I don't have any easy answers as far as the likely impact on your sex life. That is also a real concern. But I think this is a "the grass is always greener on the other side" situation. I would say, first try your damndest to make it work somehow in the context of your current relationship.
You may find a brief fling here or there to accommodate this fetish, but the odds of finding someone who is into all this and compatible with you in other ways, are probably not in your favor. It gives me no pleasure to be so brutally honest about this, but I speak from experience. And I know there are quite a few others here who share this frustration. It sucks, but that is the truth.
6 years