My ex girlfriend was fat, but we would always eat together and I was always encouraging her to eat more, talking about food and trying to seduce her. I think she probably put on 60 pounds by the time we were done, and I had put on at least 20. I still think about her belly touching the steering wheel as she drove me to get us cupcakes, about her letting me hold her from behind so I could feel the entire scope of her belly in my arms.
2 years