I do but i'm really trying to work on letting go of that shame now, I don't think it's helpful for me and it definitely wouldn't be for whoever i'm with. I often used to wish i just had a "normal" sexuality and I guess I still do occasionally but given that is clearly not gonna happen so it's a waste of time and effort to try to make it. i do enjoy vanilla sex a lot but it's not the same
I definitely enjoy the whole shaming side of the kink (when it's consensual obv) but I think there is enough shame around weight for that still to exist without me contributing to it.
4 years