4 years
Saying she's getting sooo fat when really he is
alelectro:
I think Female Feeders are actually quite common. They just don't use the lingo and they certainly don't have to visit a website to get what they want.
I personally know a couple women who are most definitely serious feeders, whether they even know it or not. There's something odd I just realized both have in common though.
The first is a Korean American friend -- super traditional. It's crazy how much she spoils people. She was married once and unfortunately he was such a jerk that it ended after several years, but not until she brought him endless snacks while he watched football that he went from jock to butterball with gut spilling literally all around his belt. Not just that hanging gut in front, but nearly a 360 degree all-around hang.
She comments about giving a guy his body weight in cookies or offering fried pastries to help his waistline. She's the real deal. She's taking her current guy on the thin to fat journey, except he's plumping extra fast being quarantined with her.
My jaw dropped at her FB post yesterday. She says: "I'm loving being home to bake all day, but my waistline is hating it!". She says *my* waistline, yet she's just as thin as ever, maybe even skinnier, standing in front of her mixer. But a couple photos later, her guy is reclining with his belly piling up in a mound above his waist, like some life-sized load of bread that she put too much yeast into. But somehow she thinks she is the FAT one.
Another girl I know is the no nonsense type. Cool, bit of a type A, with an absolutely huge husband, well over 450 pounds. He has hips that sway almost like an SSBBW, pillowy arms, and a butter face. I clicked a link to her blog a while back and it was all about postpartum weight loss!
She had alternating posts about how she had the best husband ever (standing proudly next to her SSBHM), and then how she got soo FAT being pregnant that she had to lose 15 pounds to fit back into her size 6 jeans!
The dissonance is so extreme, it's almost like these secret FFAs were getting fat vicariously. Ah, the questions I would love to ask them, but never could
I think Female Feeders are actually quite common. They just don't use the lingo and they certainly don't have to visit a website to get what they want.
I personally know a couple women who are most definitely serious feeders, whether they even know it or not. There's something odd I just realized both have in common though.
The first is a Korean American friend -- super traditional. It's crazy how much she spoils people. She was married once and unfortunately he was such a jerk that it ended after several years, but not until she brought him endless snacks while he watched football that he went from jock to butterball with gut spilling literally all around his belt. Not just that hanging gut in front, but nearly a 360 degree all-around hang.
She comments about giving a guy his body weight in cookies or offering fried pastries to help his waistline. She's the real deal. She's taking her current guy on the thin to fat journey, except he's plumping extra fast being quarantined with her.
My jaw dropped at her FB post yesterday. She says: "I'm loving being home to bake all day, but my waistline is hating it!". She says *my* waistline, yet she's just as thin as ever, maybe even skinnier, standing in front of her mixer. But a couple photos later, her guy is reclining with his belly piling up in a mound above his waist, like some life-sized load of bread that she put too much yeast into. But somehow she thinks she is the FAT one.
Another girl I know is the no nonsense type. Cool, bit of a type A, with an absolutely huge husband, well over 450 pounds. He has hips that sway almost like an SSBBW, pillowy arms, and a butter face. I clicked a link to her blog a while back and it was all about postpartum weight loss!
She had alternating posts about how she had the best husband ever (standing proudly next to her SSBHM), and then how she got soo FAT being pregnant that she had to lose 15 pounds to fit back into her size 6 jeans!
The dissonance is so extreme, it's almost like these secret FFAs were getting fat vicariously. Ah, the questions I would love to ask them, but never could
Ah I can definitely relate to these women - there is a total disconnect between your own beauty standards and those you look for in your partner. There are so many things I wouldn't think twice about serving up to my o/h but feel mega-guilty if I indulge. And it's not like being with someone fat makes it any more or less acceptable in my mind for me to be fat myself
3 years
