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Why do men visit my profile (i’m male)?

EatNGetFatter:
I am a straight male. When I post new pix, I get lots of men visiting and commenting, but very few women. Wonder why that is?

Munchies:
There are men attracted to men on this site. Some men (regardless of sexuality) like to look at men gaining for inspiration.

On the flip side, for women attracted to men, it's hard finding sexy pics on FF. With love, but many men aren't good at taking pictures on this site. The women tend to put the effort into the angles, backgrounds, and lighting. Meanwhile, the men kind of... sit there. The level of effort is not the same.

As such, many women attracted to men don't even bother looking.

Bigwideland:
What is a sexy male image what positions angles , context or settings do ladies find attractive, to be honest I have no idea.

WideJuan76:
@Bigwideland,

The fact that you show your face and have no issues showing your shape off is half the battle. Ask yourself what colors would show off your girth ? What fabrics would assist with that ? You can use any side angle shots plus look up three point lighting too. FF can be your testing ground for real engagement with like minded people and the. You can move onto Tumblr and possible Onlyfans.

Munchies:
Bless you for understanding this.

WideJuan76:
@Munchies,

And bless you too for being so honest and upfront. I have been obese most of my life so I take notes but I am not the courageous type like Bigwideland but I do know how to market people who have the ability to put themselves out there to be adored by people who admire them.


This is true. Bigwideland was man enough to ask. Most guys would have brushed me off.
1 year

Why do men visit my profile (i’m male)?

EatNGetFatter:
I am a straight male. When I post new pix, I get lots of men visiting and commenting, but very few women. Wonder why that is?

Munchies:
There are men attracted to men on this site. Some men (regardless of sexuality) like to look at men gaining for inspiration.

On the flip side, for women attracted to men, it's hard finding sexy pics on FF. With love, but many men aren't good at taking pictures on this site. The women tend to put the effort into the angles, backgrounds, and lighting. Meanwhile, the men kind of... sit there. The level of effort is not the same.

As such, many women attracted to men don't even bother looking.

Bigwideland:
What is a sexy male image what positions angles , context or settings do ladies find attractive, to be honest I have no idea.

WideJuan76:
@Bigwideland,

The fact that you show your face and have no issues showing your shape off is half the battle. Ask yourself what colors would show off your girth ? What fabrics would assist with that ? You can use any side angle shots plus look up three point lighting too. FF can be your testing ground for real engagement with like minded people and the. You can move onto Tumblr and possible Onlyfans.

Munchies:
Bless you for understanding this.

WideJuan76:
@Munchies,

And bless you too for being so honest and upfront. I have been obese most of my life so I take notes but I am not the courageous type like Bigwideland but I do know how to market people who have the ability to put themselves out there to be adored by people who admire them.

Munchies:
This is true. Bigwideland was man enough to ask. Most guys would have brushed me off.


Agreed, but Bigwideland actually has potential to have a following and he just needs our help to get him started. That is what we are here for.

Waddlers help other waddlers. Lol
1 year

Why do men visit my profile (i’m male)?

looking at your profile picture all i see is belly and nothing to really use to assume gender so it will take some investigation to see who you are
1 year

Why do men visit my profile (i’m male)?

It could be that you posted something, and other men were curious about where you live, what your size is, or something else related to your comment.
1 year

Why do men visit my profile (i’m male)?

Munchies:
The specifics vary from audience to audience, but some things stay the same. You need to look like you take pride in your appearance. Clean up your background. Put thought into your clothes. Play around with angles, lighting, and colors to see what works best for you.

You also need to keep in mind who your audience is. For example, looking submissive and vulnerable might work for a domme, but it will be a turn off for a sub. A woman looking for a long-term relationship will appreciate candid shots that tastefully show off your figure. Meanwhile, a woman who just wants to oggle sexy fat men will appreciate something more risque.

Some examples of men who know their angles:









Some good examples of well-done images I will have a think as to what I can do with what equipment I have thanks to all the comments. I do not have any lights, but I do have a SLR and tripod with remote that's a start.
1 year

Why do men visit my profile (i’m male)?

Bigwideland:
Munchies:
The specifics vary from audience to audience, but some things stay the same. You need to look like you take pride in your appearance. Clean up your background. Put thought into your clothes. Play around with angles, lighting, and colors to see what works best for you.

You also need to keep in mind who your audience is. For example, looking submissive and vulnerable might work for a domme, but it will be a turn off for a sub. A woman looking for a long-term relationship will appreciate candid shots that tastefully show off your figure. Meanwhile, a woman who just wants to oggle sexy fat men will appreciate something more risque.

Some examples of men who know their angles:









Some good examples of well-done images I will have a think as to what I can do with what equipment I have thanks to all the comments. I do not have any lights, but I do have a SLR and tripod with remote that's a start.


You can use natural light like sun light. You can also use a tripod and a selfish stick to practice but you can truly entice your audience with the expressing your feedee personality in your statements.
1 year

Why do men visit my profile (i’m male)?

Thank you all for your useful replies!
1 year

Why do men visit my profile (i’m male)?

NocturnalDevotion:
Truer words have never been spoken!!! Same with Feabie!!! And I HATE the shooting from way below to make the belly look bigger thing, you can’t even see what the person really looks like. Plus most men don’t show their face which I find annoying too. Like, if anyone finds you on here that means that they were on here too, so what can they say?


To be fair, any pictures uploaded here that aren't ultimately deleted by the uploader, or hidden by staff are viewable to anyone, even without an account.

I can't help but think it might make it harder for me to find a job and easier to get fired.

I've heard about a crossdresser who lost his job of 30 years because of it. I've heard of a former pornstar/starlets who lost their jobs because of it. So yes, I'm afraid. Unfortunately, I lack sufficient information to properly assess risk.

It's why I've never publicly shown my face here even after 16 years. That and I've never been in the habit of taking many pictures of myself to begin with. It's also one of many reasons why I don't use generalized social web sites like Facebook or Instagram. Overall, it's a lot of liability and not a lot of upside or advantage. And yes, looking that up is borderline illegal but that often happens anyway, especially with smaller companies.
1 year

Why do men visit my profile (i’m male)?

Just going to point out your username and profile picture are androgynous.
1 year

Why do men visit my profile (i’m male)?

Men who imagine themselves to be as fat as you. They are not as fat but would like to be if only for a day.
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