Maestroff:
Seems pretty typical for this site, not sure how many people really want to be here or like each other. Most females just trying to make $$$ and most men just annoying them. This profile is only a couple years old but I've been on this site for a really long time and it's unfortunate. Once upon a time people connected on common fetishes without a monetary incentive. Then the viral tiktok "I make $1K a day feeding for simps" came and everything changed. I don't knock the hustle but the contempt people show for others is kind of depressing. I'm generally positive and even though I have a bit of sadistic tendencies myself, it's only if the other person gets off on the reciprocal.
Except that's not even true.
The majority of people on here - male, female, and otherwise - are here to be horny, to find love, or to bond with like-minded kinksters. And while there are women on here trying to make money and men being cave-dwelling troglodytes, they are not indicative of the whole.
What's going on is that the cave-dwelling troglodytes end up driving away a good chunk of women and even some of the men. I know a lot of men who've been sexually harassed by these idiots because they didn't read their profiles and assumed them to be female. A good chunk of these victims will leave.
When it comes to women, we have to be guarded for safety. Some stop interacting with men completely. Others become disinterested in engaging in kink sexually or romantically.
Some women are here to make money, but that's not the full picture. Some want to get fat but cannot afford to do so. So they get sponsors and happily eat for them. Some are content creators or hustlers happy to sell their kinky services for a fee. Both groups also engage with kink space outside of financial reasons. For example, I see forum posts from time to time from various content creators engaging with the site like a normal user. They are all delightful.
Some women on here are only here for the money. They are in the minority. And while they are a pain in the ass for men, they aren't any better towards their female counterparts.
Meanwhile, your average guy on here is just some guy. He may not be the most enlightened person, but he isn't trying to hurt anyone, either. Of those that don't get chased off by the cave-dwelling troglodytes, some will leave due to catfish (often other men pretending to be women), scammers (some of which are men or a network of people), and users. Some will become cave-dwelling troglodytes because they do not or refuse to understand why women are guarded and jaded.
Everyone else is just here for a good time. Some people of all genders are also trying to make the community a better place for all.