Lifestyle tips

JN_TumLover56:
So this might be sounding like a weird question. But let me see if I can explain more clearly:

Now I am still very much into women especially when it comes towards the belly stuff with Feederism as a side effect. However I have had moments where I’ve seen a chunkier guy who does have some flair. Or sometimes I see bellies from men where I’m like “Mhm! Nice!”.

Though at this rate it seems like everyone is fair game. Especially when we’re talking about the queer side of things. And who knows, maybe I’m actually bi-curious but haven’t confirmed it. 😅

So yeah hopefully people can understand what I am trying to say and look forward to hearing from what others would say!

FAMGM:
I’m attracted to fat - whether it’s on male, female, or some other gender.

Having said that, I’m aware of some slight differences in how that attraction works.

When I look at a fat male body, there’s a high degree of imagined “transference” - I imagine myself in their body, experiencing what it would be like to carry their fat.

When I look at a fat female body, “transference” is very limited, and I’m more attracted to interacting with their fat externally from experiencing *being* them.

BurningSquare:
I've been wondering this myself because I am straight, I've never had a crush on a guy or been attracted to skinny guys but there are some fat guys that have turned me on before.

Seemingly I'm sexually attracted to women and fat; any male specific features (e.g. a hairy belly) tend to turn me off, but that's not the case for female specific features.

Thinking about this does make me wonder where do you draw the line between fetish and sexuality... or is this just because the body shapes of fat guys and girls tend to share more similarities than if they were skinny