Feeder/Feedee

Don't get me wrong. There are scores of impressively bad feeders out there. I've run into several myself. But I think part of your problem is your profile.

this is a new profile, someone was making new profiles to harass me on my old one after I ended our online relationship lol. But yeah I get it. I think the influx of OF users, and the influx of people expecting something for nothing, has essentially ruined these communities. especially faebie.

look I get it it’s expensive to eat big to get big or do stuffings or whatever I just think it’s kinda wild to suggest people NEED to feed you or say things like “how come no feeders! >“ it comes off disingenuous

I get it, but eventually if I am just sending pictures and videos of myself eating to someone who is pretending they are "feeding" me, it makes it feel very one sided and like I am just being used.

For some of us, the submission in addition to being taken care of (buying the occasional meal) is part of the fetish of being a feedee. Encouragement just isnt it for some of us.

I think the influx of sex workers claiming they are into this, or people just demanding money for food without any chatting, have changed this community. Its a bummer because it used to be easier to find genuine people to engage with.

This is why I eat for myself and only post pics or a video when I’m feeling it, I get that it can be different for other people but I never considered that the pampering is part of it, probably I’m coming at if from my angle and my experience very few wanna see a fat guy eat or something lol