GrowingHeather wrotelulubelle wrote
I agree. I desire to gain but can't find a feeder who is honest and truly wants to be my partner for life and take care of me if i do become immobile. I hesitate to get too large for fear I won't be able to take care of myself alone if he cuts and runs.
I have to say I feel the same way you to. My BF left in December because I got too fat for him. I don't want that to happen again.
I think this is one of the biggest concerns with immobility and probably one of the greatest fears of anyone intentionaly gaining weight.
Sure places like this make it seem so much easier to eat to a size we enjoy, what with all the encouragement, but reality is often not the same as the dream...