Back in late 2016, a female friend (about 110 kilos 170 cm tall) came to my place for a long weekend - she was attending some sort of course in my city.

The first night we slept together, we didn't have sex but I did enjoy the feeling of her weight on the mattress. Although she is not the heaviest lady I slept with in that bed, it felt like she weighted the double of her weight.

If you do decide to say good things and place emphasis on her fat bits, when you are in bed with her put a lot of emphasis on those bits caressing and kissing them.

I used to love very large breasts at least F cup on a 42+ chest. Now, I love also the large belly, a very large ass and double chin.

I remember the first time a lady sat on my lap to cradle list her and I realized her ass was too large for my arms to contain it. And I managed to lift her.

I just come back from an interview for a call center - a heaven for those who like SSBBW. One BBW by the standards here but SSBBW for the standards of my area did climb two set of stairs and then down again without an issue.

If we land the job (actually if she does) I would ask her number.

Given I like the squashing aspect and I always favor for the larger person to be on top, I think it is a sexy thing. If I date a normal (from the point of view of the society) size person I like to be large enough to give them a hard time on the missionary position.

For me:
Lift and carry where a man lifts a BBW/SSBBW and struggling to do so.
Period - red wings and maybe running a period sanctuary where BBW/SSBW are treated like royalties at the time of PMS and the time of the month - even changing their product.
Squashing and trampling

The sense that the heavy lady overflows a chair, her clothes and make a noticeable difference on the strain put on the bed.

I take your word for it. It would be hard to find high quality fattening food.

May I point out that some time lower income people tend to be fatter much fatter than higher income ones. Fattening delicious food is cheaper than some delicious hi end.

And there is a cost that I like to incur is to replace cheap furniture breaking under the weight of a SSBBW.

My preference is to have a partner weighting much much more than me. However some times I did it while on top with a thinner girl and it was hot too - particularly thinking how nice was for her to be under my weight.

Alternatively, if money was not an issue I would like to be the 300 pound member of a 1000 pound couple.