Has any SSBHM thought wearing a bra to control big moobs? Like borrowing one from his GF?

Do you mean his weight or the pressure of your relatives to dump him.

joliat,

Very accurate comments about a lady being so obese (but not immobile) that her size should be taken in consideration are spot on.

I thought making a post about going furniture shopping with a lady to make sure the bed would hold her weight, making sure only spending time in a good hotel as to accommodate her size, letting her to use the lift first if it is a small three person lift...

I wish I had a lady in my life large enough that her size was a constant reminder on how large she is.

I am not the most successful dater although I had a few success to date (and some notable failures with BBW).

I feel the secret is to get to know her and chat a bit before you ask her out. Ask discrete and not BBW related questions (although it is tempting to do so) about her (her educational background, which is her native town etc) and then get her number promise to call and do call her with a concrete plan - probably even a dinner date.

Break a leg (I was told to avoid g*&d l(*k in case it fails).

Way to go King. My respect I wish I were at your shoes.

Besides being part of a half ton couple I would like when my partner is two, three or more times my weight - like watching a SSBBW walking next to a normal person. And obviously I can't fail to think the small person being under the large one in bed and all those pleasures associated with the dating a really really bigger person.

Do you share the same idea and what is the biggest difference it has occurred in your relation. Mine was the lady was about 40% larger than me.

Lift and carry a lady in a cradle lift and the heavier she is the more I enjoy trying it. Hopefully I would get a (SS)BBW and be familiar with her weight and gain sufficient strength to carry her.

Just to put some answers here (I read the forum long before I register).

Make sure you have a scale that goes well beyond weight because the closer it goes to your weight the less accurate is.

I used to see a lady (I still do but she had WLS) about 260 pounds and most of it on her butt. When I asked her to sit on my lap to give her a cradle lift my arms could barely contain her ass. Picking up her was very exciting.

I prefer my lady to be shaved since I am ticklish and I don't enjoy it when a BBW is sitting on my face.