Delicatefame wrote:
Before discovering fantasy feeder I mostly watched youtube videos, messaged guys on there and made some lifelong friends. I was pretty low key about being a feeder, and kept it to myself.

Then I first found FF and felt right at home. It was nice to be a part of this community who can relate and understand me. But then it went downhill a bit. I deleted my profile on here after I had gotten in a relationship with guy who wasn't into the whole feeder thing. Which is totally fine everyone has their own kinks, likes and dislikes. But he crossed the line many many times and made me feel ashamed for being an FA and feeder and even had the nerve to call me a monster. Please note that I never pressured my kinks onto him at all, I even helped him lose 70lbs. So I decided to just push them all away, and hide my true self. I thought maybe I could "cure" myself from being a feeder or FA . Wrong! I felt even more alone than before, I felt like I was walking on eggshells every time I wanted to even cuddle him.

Eventually we broke up mutually and I rediscovered FF. My god it was so liberating to come back after three years of being judged. I regained my confidence in myself and and made new friends online and offline who really are accepting of me. Now I am happily in a relationship with someone I met here. I couldn't be more thankful for finding fantasy feeder. This site has given me hope, confidence, friends and even love!

ThatArtsyType wrote:
So I've been out of town for the last eight months, with only a couple visits home here or there. The first four were fine - I even made another visit to see him in February.

However, I cam'd with him last night, and it looks like he's put on quite a bit of weight for such a short time... as in, his chest used to be flat as a board with a sorta nerdy thinness - and since February he's developed a faint pudge and the beginnings of moobs.

All while I was out of town. I'm overwhelmed with excitement to go back, but kinda nervous too.

I've always kept this fetish strictly to this site, and (personally) have a hard time reconcile deliberate extreme fattening with health concerns... but now I'm finding myself hoping he doesn't drop it too quick over the summer, or maybe even continues to slowly gain... Ahhhh!!

I'm not really sure what to do here, because as far as he's told me, he wants to be athletic...

Well, I'm armed with the info that his favourite food is butter chicken. Not sure whether making it for him is crossing boundaries or being a stellar girlfriend at this point... help?

DMr wrote:
::Sigh::...women have it so much easier.

Officerdog wrote:
So the bike shorts thing works? Our hot, humid Queensland summer is approaching, and I'm not looking forward to the inevitable chafing 😔

Elanor wrote:
It's cheating if you feel like you have to hide it from your significant other.

Natsuki96 wrote:
There are many people here who have a partner and their partner doesn't know anything about this site or the fetishes... I don't know how others see this but, personally I think that's as if they were cheating on their partners .. or something, because a lot of them talk to other people looking for other things (you know), not just advice...

What do you think?

penelopez wrote:
I was just wondering other people's opinion on this. Do you prefer someone who has gotten fat on purpose or accident? I really like the idea of someone who has been fat their whole life and can't really help it. I guess I like the idea of a man who really just loses control when it comes to food, something about it is sexier to me than a guy who has to try so hard to gain weight.

voluptuouslover wrote:
Thighs rubbing together and touching is so damn sexy on women!

Amazing how people in main stream talk about a thigh gap being sexy.......since I was a kid I thought that this thigh gap look was absolutely disgusting.

The best is when a women.s thighs are super packed together very high up on the thigh and continue to squish together all the way down to the knees.......sexy sexy sexy!

curtishere wrote:
After sometime of nightly regular feedings to stuffed to the max, does your body start requiring itself to be stuffed before bed or its difficult to fall asleep?

I've noticed i really prefer to be stuffed nightly before bed or i can't stop thinking about stuffing?

I'm I the only one, this is new to me. Yet I like it.lol

john morris wrote:
hi in the old days a porker was fattened til its limits and then it was slaughtered.dont want that to happen to human beings,but what could be put instead of the slaugther